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Little sister is so rude to me
Rose113
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My sister is so rude to me and I never know why, then when we meet up she acts fine with me but maybe that’s because we are usually with our parents all the time?
Want to hurt me… go ahead
Wish to bully me…I’m used to it
Want to talk crap about me…go on then
Want to make me cry…feel free
Wish to bully me…I’m used to it
Want to talk crap about me…go on then
Want to make me cry…feel free
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What's it like for you when she's rude to you? And how does she behave when you're alone together?
I have two younger siblings myself and have been through situations when we were younger where one of them would be super antagonistic with me at home, but then really nice to me at school, and I remember I found that so frustrrating because it made it difficult to tell my parents or ask for support, because her behaviour switched back to 'nice' so quickly. I wonder if you relate to that?
I wonder whether your sister is aware of how differently she's being in both situations, and what it might be like to talk with her about this? How do you imagine she'd respond?
Sending hugs
When we meet irl she is nice as nip and nasty when we are alone (messages)
Yeah I relate to that
Wish to bully me…I’m used to it
Want to talk crap about me…go on then
Want to make me cry…feel free
Wish to bully me…I’m used to it
Want to talk crap about me…go on then
Want to make me cry…feel free
Have you been able to speak to her about this and how it feels very hot and cold? It might be worth speaking to other family about it too to see if they can support. What do you think?
It sounds really difficult not really knowing where you stand with someone or how they are going to act around you because they're constantly changing how they approach you. I hear you that when you meet up in person you're always with your parents, and I can understand your thinking of her maybe just being nice because they're there too. I'm sorry she's acting like this around you Rose - I'm sending hugs
Can’t talk to anyone about it cos it’s so complicated with families. We have separate parents too
Wish to bully me…I’m used to it
Want to talk crap about me…go on then
Want to make me cry…feel free