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  • amy02amy02 Posts: 405 Listening Ear
    Gosh @Chloe234 I can hear you are dealing with a lot right now and am sending you the biggest hug <3 Changes with friendships, going to college, and loneliness are all very real things that can take a toll on a person.

    Remember we are always here for you to work through these difficult emotions. All of us here care about you and do not think you are unimportant - you and your feelings matter and should be heard.
    Just to check, are you able to keep yourself safe at the moment?

    Keep us updated with how you are, we're here to listen <3
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  • Orchid059Orchid059 Posts: 390 Listening Ear
    Hi @Chloe234 I wanted to check in with you to see how you are getting on. I'd like to remind you that you are important and how you feel is valid. I can understand how difficult it is when everything piles up and feels overwhelming, and this often leads to a vicious cycle of feeling low. It can be hard to break that cycle but keep holding out hope. It's important not to bottle these emotions up so it's so good that you are opening up to the commmunity and reaching out.

    You mentioned your two friends from secondary school. Do you feel like you would be comfortable opening up to them about how you are feeling? And with regards to your sister and dad maybe they are unaware that you are feeling left out, so if you brought it to their attention maybe you could try and watch shows that you all enjoy and can chat about. I know it can feel pointless putting in effort sometimes, especially when you feel like it isn't reciprocated, but sometimes people just aren't aware that you are struggling. Reaching out is one of the best first steps in creating change for yourself.

    Also was curious with whether you've started your placement yet/ how's it going. I'd love to hear all about it.

    We see and hear you Chloe- you are not alone and we are here to help you through this.

    Keep reaching out <3
  • stardust444stardust444 Posts: 112 The Mix Convert
    @Chloe234 hi<3
    I’m so so sorry to hear you feel like this because you don’t deserve it at all, I hope you’re doing okay!! All your feelings are valid but I promise you are not a rubbish person, you are amazing and you deserve love and great friends. If you ever want someone to talk to, I am always here<3
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