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As for masking yourself to fit in, I would advise against this because by being your authentic self you will always find your people. It can feel daunting meeting new people but after the first few days, I am sure you will start getting to know your peers. I would also make the college aware of the extent of your anxiety so they can put in place the correct contingency plans for you to make you feel supported.
Keep us updated with how you get on- we are always here for a chat
You’re important too and you deserve support 🫂
Just echoing what Toe has shared above, you're so important too Chloe and you matter to us. Can I ask if anything triggered these urges?
It sounds like you've got so much on your plate at the moment. Starting college is a big change, and it's understandable that you're feeling anxious about it. The long days and early mornings would be tough for anyone, especially when you're already feeling so drained.
It must be really hard to feel like you have to mask who you are. I just want to say that there's nothing wrong with who you are (including your love for ducks which I absolutely love!) or anything else that makes you you.
How are you feeling about starting college beyond the anxiety? Is there anything in particular that you’re looking forward to, or maybe something that you’re worried about that we can talk through?
I'm glad to hear you are feeling some excitement about starting college and doing something you love! What is it you'll be studying again? I know you want to be a teacher so is it related to that?
It's okay to be struggling with your mental health right now. That doesn't determine how trustworthy you are or will be in the future. It's okay not to be okay and you're doing so well to get support for yourself. I also actually think having some lived experience of the low points that life can bring us, oftentimes makes us more connected to other people going through something similar, and so thinking about your future in teaching, I can see you being such a wonderful, empathetic person who looks out for everyone.