question of the week

Former Member

soooo im bored so im giving myself a job each week i will post some questions on here and let u lot do your job which is answering the questions and discussing it between urself so u get to know each other more i hope this works out coz it'll be fun

question 1
what would be ur favourite tv shows and books
(my answer would be YOU for tv show and divergent in books)

question 2
what would u look for in a friend that u intend on relying on
(mine would probably be loyalty and trust )

question 3
what expectation would u have in a relationship
(might be too much to ask for but princess treatment, support, loyalty, physical affection, clingy, overprotective even possessive idm just love me )
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Love yall

Gemma

Hey @marsdreamer, I'd say my favourite tv show is Prison Break! Has anyone seen it? YOU is also a good show, he plays the part so well!

In a friend, I look for people who are kind and understanding above everything else. People who are there for you but who you can still have a good laugh with

In terms of a relationship, I've been in a long-term relationship (heading on a decade now ha) and what I value in my relationship is trust, affection, respect, good communication, honesty, humour, and friendship. My partner is my best friend first and always will be. But I also value the fact we're two independent people who come together as a team to navigate life.

It sounds like you really value the loyalty and protective factors of a relationship. I'm wondering what makes you say though that you look for someone who is overprotective and even possessive? I think it's natural to want to feel secure and safe in your relationship, but it's also super important for us and our partners to give eachother space to be ourselves and that's part of trusting someone. I've been with my partner since we were both teenagers and the fact that we gave eachother the space to grow as individuals actually created a stronger bond between us and helped us understand eachother more as we moved into adulthood. Does anyone else feel the same?