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Should I get friendship making apps
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I’m thinking about getting apps to meet friends in my area, is this a good idea?, what can I expect?, what do I need to be prepared for and is it safe?
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A lot of people use apps like Bumble to find friends, or they might use other websites to look at local meetups and things like that. So they can definitely be safe. But it's best to take a few precautions when using sites like that to protect yourself just in case:
As for what to expect - it varies, to be honest! If you make it clear in your bio what you're looking for, that helps a lot. But when you're meeting people for the first time you tend to come across all kinds of folks, and I'd recommend being open to that going in.
I don't have loads of experience using apps like that just to make friends, so other people here might have some more direct experience to share with you.
Hobby groups or social groups on places like Facebook can be pretty good for this sort of thing, particularly if you're into nerdy stuff like board games or D&D.
What kinds of apps are you thinking of using?
Facebook groups in your area can be really good to find people with the same interests as you. For example, I would make an introduction post saying I like baking and going to cafes, and then I would get responses from people who are into the same things. It's then up to you to connect with them via DM or even make your own group chat! After talking online you may decide to arrange something. I met up for a coffee with a couple of people this way and it was genuinely so lovely to get to know them and we had lots in common
Regarding safety I agree with the things above about being in a public place, somewhere you know, having a designated time etc. etc. It's always good to take some precaution - and you never have to feel obligated to reply/stay if you feel uncomfortable.
I hope it goes well and you connect with some friends, keep us updated