Dunno what todo

BensonE

I have a weird feeling a friends boyfriend has gone back to being toxic but I can't tell for certain.

A few things happened lately that individually means nothing much but put together with past means alot

But my ASD means I miss read micro language

Former Member

have u got another friend whose opinion u cna ask for?

BensonE

yana wrote: »

have u got another friend whose opinion u cna ask for?

I did ask responses was

Have a "chat" with him
And
Roll a d20 to do a strength check to upper cut the guy

Are good responses

Former Member

have you managed to speak to your friend themselves to see what they think about their boyfriend?

BensonE

Slinky wrote: »

have you managed to speak to your friend themselves to see what they think about their boyfriend?

Not yet. Its on my todo list hoping to meet up with her before she goes back to uni in September but chances of that happening are 50/50 atmo (maybe even less)

Orchid059

Hi @BensonE I can understand your concern for your friend- you are a good friend for looking out for her. If you are noticing signs in the boyfriend that don't sit right with you, I would perhaps mention it to your friend to see how she feels about the situation. She might not be aware that there are any issues so tread carefully so you don't overstep.

There is nothing wrong with expressing your concern gently as long as it is in a respectful manner as it means you are a good friend and only looking out for her. You still have the whole summer befor university starts in September so I am sure an opportunity will arise for you two to be able to meet up.

BensonE

Orchid059 wrote: »

Hi @BensonE I can understand your concern for your friend- you are a good friend for looking out for her. If you are noticing signs in the boyfriend that don't sit right with you, I would perhaps mention it to your friend to see how she feels about the situation. She might not be aware that there are any issues so tread carefully so you don't overstep.

There is nothing wrong with expressing your concern gently as long as it is in a respectful manner as it means you are a good friend and only looking out for her. You still have the whole summer befor university starts in September so I am sure an opportunity will arise for you two to be able to meet up.

Hopefully atmo she not replying to messages but she goes through these periods and honestly it's become kinda normal for me to have long periods hearing nothing from her

Luckily we have a phone call is allowed friendship and its like random phone calls and don't have to be any spefic reason just try and be mindful of time of call

We reason we be mindful that way if either of us ring at a unholy hour it's usually urgent