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Rose113
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There gone πππππππ there actually gone π
I'm such a shitty friend for not trying harder to help them π
I tried so hard to stop them from taking there life yet it wasn't good enough, I'm so so so so stupid. I should of just gone to there house to help them be safe πππ
I'm such a shitty friend for not trying harder to help them π
I tried so hard to stop them from taking there life yet it wasn't good enough, I'm so so so so stupid. I should of just gone to there house to help them be safe πππ
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Want to hurt me⦠go ahead
Wish to bully meβ¦Iβm used to it
Want to talk crap about meβ¦go on then
Want to make me cryβ¦feel free
Want to hurt me⦠go ahead
Wish to bully meβ¦Iβm used to it
Want to talk crap about meβ¦go on then
Want to make me cryβ¦feel free
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Losing someone to suicide is incredibly painful, and I can't imagine how much you're hurting right now. It sounds so hard having those 'what if' thoughts of wanting to have tried harder or go to their house, but please don't blame yourself for what happened because it wasn't your fault in any way. Suicide is very complicated and there are often a lot of things that play a part in why it happens. It's not your fault and you're not a bad friend
Please be kind to yourself as you're going through this difficult time River. If you need someone to talk to, we're all here for you.
There's also some great organisations out there offering support to anyone who has lost someone to suicide:
Keep us updated with how you're feeling, we're all here for you
Want to hurt me⦠go ahead
Wish to bully meβ¦Iβm used to it
Want to talk crap about meβ¦go on then
Want to make me cryβ¦feel free
Just echoing what Aife has written - suicide is an extremely difficult and complex thing, and it is not your fault (or any one person's fault) that it happened. So many intertwining things/events are out of our control and impossible to predict. Feelings of 'what if' can be so hard to deal with, but remember you are not to blame and are not a bad friend.
Remember we are here for you to talk any time throughout this, and the above bereavement support could be helpful too. This is such a difficult thing to go through and it is so important to be kind to yourself
Have you got any coping strategies in place or any support in place to help you through the grieving process?
You're very brave for reaching out and we're always here for support whenever you need
I know it's hard but try to show yourself some kindness and compassion
If you're wanting more specific support I've added some links to some organisations that support individuals bereaved from a death by suicide:
Suicide&Co - provides a helpline and counselling support (England/Wales): https://suicideandco.org/
Facing the Future - provides a safe space to talk about the impact suicide has had on you in the form of online support groups where you can talk to those who have gone through similar experiences:
https://facingthefuturegroups.org/