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Amy22

That's totally fine if you don't feel comfortable doing sexual stuff such as masterbation. It can be a personal thing to do stuff like that which is completely fine. There is nothing wrong with feeling uncomfortable with the thought sex and sexual feelings or pleasures as everything experiences the concept of sex differently. I will be honest I am not a big fan of sexual stuff too so your not alone here. Everyone will have a different experience with it some enjoying, while other's don't enjoy it as much

JustV

Building on what @Amy22 said, sometimes it also takes time to figure out how to 'do' sex in a way that works for you. Loads of people (particularly women) don't enjoy sex or masturbation earlier in their lives and find their groove with it when they're a bit older. Super normal either way.

independent_

You’re not a strange person, as V said it can take time particularly for those of us with vaginas. And some people just naturally have a much lower sex drive than others and don’t t think about it as much

Terry8936

@Morgyn007 Everyone has different feelings about it, and you are not strange at all! Just go with what you feel comfortable. You don't need to do things because others do it.

VicK_torious

Building on what other have also written in this dicsussion, its totally normal to not like engaging in sexual activities or masturbation from the first time you try it. Personally, I think that these things need time and patience, as well as support and guidance from someone who may even have some extra knowledge or experience sometimes! @Morgyn007