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No such thing as husband-/wife-finances!!!
I extreme hate that in islam in a marriage wifes moneys her own while hbs is both of theirs cuz men r meant to be providers best place for women is just in the home serving family (read post “housework is the woman’s job) like np in women working n it’s more obligatory n encouraged for guys n always wife that has to give up work to take care of everything at home. Religions meant to prevent discrimination not encourage it quran saying “as God gave some more means than others” means if wife earns more ofc they’d live on her money (gender conjugations r only for verbs and it’s ancient translations/studies that phrase it as “men are providers and protectors of women”.) n that hb has right to not let wife work ofc we’re allowed prioritising household includes finances and providing is also doing things around the house (even if there’s already enough money with hbs earnings!!)“conditional agreements” encourage the discrimination according the quran the only rights he has over her is intimacy! N other overprotective attitudes towards us women in general hurtful to be seen n treated as weaker n more vulnerable we don’t help how we r physically!!! Altho I’m never planning on getting married I’m totally pissed on how it is between guys n girls in general the former still being more encouraged to work n study away from home city