I think I've messed up

awesomeminecraft6789

Hey guys 

So earlier I was talking to my girlfriend and she was stressed about something and asked if she was going to die and I said I doubt it and then because she swallowed dust so I said I doubt it because I don't think swallowing dust is bad enough to kill you is it because I'm not sure and then she said don't scare me and then I said well you haven't died yet because I was trying to be positive and get her to be about it and then she said stop with this emoji 😭 I waited for a few minutes before replying and I said sorry and then she said k i think I've really messed up and made her mad at me  I'm not sure what to do or what I should say can you guys help me?

Past User

Hey big hugs 

I don’t think you messed up it sounds like she was struggling and you were trying your best to help. Sometimes it can be hard to know exactly what to say and sometimes the thing we say doesn’t always offer the comfort we thought it would. I think in that situation I would let her know that I’m happy to listen is she needs anything and that I’m there for her and then just give her some time. 

You sound like a very caring person and don’t forget to look after yourself. We’re always here if you ever need anything, always happy to listen 

 

Siena

Heya. Sorry I know this was posted a few days ago. So just wondering what happened with the situation and if you want to talk about it ?

I personally think it sounds like you did nothing wrong