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Former Member

So my husband can’t last longer than one stroke in bed less than a minute and I’m so sick of it. I’ve been trying to work with him on lasting and his Performance cause he really can’t even stroking without coming in one minute or less . <div>If I give him oral it’s the same.
What do you recommend. It’s very frustrating and I’m a bit mad about it. </div><div> I feel like leaving the marriage cause I’m not getting satisfied at all. 
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Former Member

Hi Molly

I’m sorry to hear your husband is frustrating you in bed, it does sound disappointing, there’s a great article from Brook with tips on what you can try here https://www.brook.org.uk/your-life/premature-ejaculation-coming-too-soon/

Hope it helps!

Take care 
Lucy 

Former Member

Hi Molly
It's understandable that you'd find that frustrating and disappointing. It sounds like it's a difficult thing to go through as a couple. I'm wondering how long this has been happening for him and if you've spoken to him about how you're feeling?

Former Member

Hey @Past User 

We have a couple of articles here that you might find helpful:
https://www.themix.org.uk/sex-and-relationships/having-sex/premature-ejaculation-3953.html
https://www.themix.org.uk/sex-and-relationships/having-sex/how-can-i-stop-coming-so-quickly-4734.html

Former Member

Hey @Past User !

I've also attached an article. The NHS site is very informative. It might be good for youse to both look at together
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/ejaculation-problems/ 

Former Member

Lots of good articles here just came to echo those and offer some hugs it sounds real tough for you both! 💖

A common method is stop and start. Think of it as long foreplay you can build up how long it lasts by stopping before and starting again after a lil while.

Communication is a big key in this one and ensuring you are both getting something out of it so nobody feels left out