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dancertoridancertori Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
in Health & Wellbeing
hope this is the right place. i told some in GC tonight, but want everyone to know, but its impossible to tell everyone together.

Im 15 weeks pregnant. 

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this wasnt planned, and its taken alot to decide whats the best for myself and baby. i have very complex health, and my body may not be able to safely bear a child, and i risk passing genetic conditions on to baby, but i decided to keep the baby and see how it goes. i lost a child at 18 weeks a few years ago, so this isnt without risk, theres also huge risk on my own body, but it was my choice.

Unfourtunatly i am doing this alone. i concieved from rape, which was by my sister (Trans m2f) baby wont have contact. 

I will try to keep everyone up to date throughout my pregnancy. thanks for your support.

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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,667 Legendary Poster
    I already said in GC but I’ll say it again - congratulations, I hope all goes well :) 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    Salix_alba_2019Salix_alba_2019 Deactivated Posts: 1,646 Extreme Poster
    Thank you for sharing with us all, wish you both a safe journey 💗
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    HowDoYouTalkAboutItHowDoYouTalkAboutIt Posts: 54 Boards Initiate
    Support whatever you chose. Best of luck with the pregnancy and wish you all the best xx
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    BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Posts: 3,590 Community Veteran
    Hope all goes well 😊❤️
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
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    Han93Han93 Posts: 309 The Mix Regular
    Wishing you all the best <3 
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    StephanieStephanie Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    Hey :heart:

    Just wanted to say we are here for you, and wishing you all the best <3
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    "Like when I was down you just had that smile that made me feel like everything's worthwhile. Thinking of the day when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break, I'll be missing you"

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    dancertoridancertori Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
    Thank you all guys.x
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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,911 Master Poster
    Congratulations. I hope that the pregnancy goes as smoothly as it can go. <3
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,557 Skive's The Limit
    All the best! <3
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Lucy307Lucy307 Posts: 1,171 Wise Owl
    Congratulations and sending hugs 💜💜
    Treat yourself as you would treat a good friend
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    dancertoridancertori Posts: 127 The Mix Convert
    Thanks guys
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    AriannaArianna Posts: 77 Budding Regular
    Sending strength and love - take care of yourself.x
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    coc0maccoc0mac Posts: 1,054 Wise Owl
    Wishing you all the best, take good care :heart:
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