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Which name is best? (part 2)

Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
I'd really like your opinion again. My birth name is Cassandra Kathleen, I started going by my middle name as a quick escape from Cassandra because people kept calling me nicknames I didn't like. I'm still trying to find a new first name that I'll feel comfortable with.

So, I've done a lot of thinking, and one I'm considering is Clarissa or Carissa (pronounced ish-a rather than eesh-a). I think it's really pretty, and it's similar to Cassandra and isn't too common. My only problem is that I'm not sure which I prefer! Do you have a preference? Like before, I'll still choose what I want if I were to use it, I'm just curious on your view.

Which name is best? (part 2) 6 votes

BubblesGoesBooSienaDancerLubnaPoppyBSalix_alba_2019 6 votes


  • BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Posts: 3,590 Community Veteran
    I like Clarissa, but choose what one you like :)
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
  • LubnaLubna Deactivated Posts: 496 Listening Ear
    I like Clarissa too 🙋‍♀️
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,301 Skive's The Limit
    I like them both cause ive never meet a Clarissa or carissa & i like less comon names ah
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    edited January 2020
    Thanks for your opinions guys, I enjoy asking and hearing them :)

    (I posted to update with names I'm thinking of but then decided to wait until I'm sure about them. Lol.)
    Post edited by Kathleen07 on
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