Feeling really confused at the moment. I'm Bi but not out, and I've been getting to know this lass, however I went out at few weeks ago and slept with a lad. He was the first lad I slept with and I thought it was just a one night stand but I can't stop thinking about him.
I don't want to seem like I'm messing them both around and I don't know whether to see this lad again or how to let him down gentle.
Is it possible that the feelings for him will pass and I can remain friends with him? I keep thinking about if I will reget not seeing him again. How do I tell him this, or tell him to remain friends - would it seem awkward to be dating a lass and be friends with a lad I've slept with and had feelings for?