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ellie2000

If someone calls iu sxc and then sexual messages, they show them self's on webcam and i have given in giving him a show wat do i do

Do u think he recorded it

Former Member

Hi @ellie2000

Hope you're ok. Would it be possible to tell us a bit more about the situation? Is this someone you know and would be confident asking them whether they have recorded it?

Did you feel pressured to show yourself on webcam?

There's a good helpline for people who have had sexual images of themselves shared online: https://revengepornhelpline.org.uk/

I'm not sure but they may be able to tell you what you can do if you're not sure if they've recorded it?

Past User

Hey, I'm unsure if my advice will be the best for you, I wouldn't be able to fully understand you situation if I tried. But if, as han said you felt pressured, or were underage at the time, this definitely seems like a matter for the police? 

Aoife

Hey @ellie2000

It's really positive you've reached out for support about what happened, you're so brave. We're all here to support you anytime you need to talk about anything  

@Past User and @Spook98 have both given some great advice already. I just wanted to echo what they've said and say that if you felt pressured into doing something you weren't comfortable with, that's not okay. No one should ever pressure you into doing anything you didn't want to do.

I found a great article on Childline's website that you might find helpful to read through. I've included part of the article below:

If you’ve sent a nude and you’re worried about what might happen, there are things you can do:

• Ask for the message to be deleted
  Explain that you’re not comfortable with them keeping the picture and ask them to delete it.

• Don’t reply to threats
  Don’t reply to someone trying to threaten or blackmail you, and don’t send more photos. It can be scary, but it can help you to keep in control

• Talk to someone you trust
  Talking can be scary, especially if you’re being threatened. But it can also help you get support and stay in control. Find out more about asking an adult for help.

• Report what’s happened
  If you’re under 18 and you’re worried or being threatened you can make a report to CEOP. Making a report isn’t confidential but it does mean that they can help to stop what’s happening.

• Get help with how you’re feeling
  Having a nude shared by other people or being threatened isn’t your fault. If you’re struggling to cope or you don’t know what to do, talk to us.

You mentioned you're not too sure what to do and it sounds like you think he might have recorded it. There's a really great website linked in this article called CEOP. You can report anything that's happened here and they will be able to help you.  

I hope this is helpful, let me know if you have any questions about anything and what I've linked above. We're all here to help you

You've been really brave posting here Ellie. How are you feeling today about everything?