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some advice please
hi everyone im in a bit of a difficult situation. ive had a really difficult couple of years ive been surrounded by toxic people and that severely damaged my mental health ive been constantly unhappy. so ive freed myself from all that finally and I plucked up the courage recently to start a gym nearby in the hope of making new friends and i was introduced to a gorgeous guy just a year and a half younger than me by the receptionist in the gym. this guy is a self employed personal trainer and he asked me what.my.goals were. im a slim girl but i just have a few areas i would like to tone up and he offered to train with me in the gym and ofcourse i said yes! ive had training sessions with him a few times now and the more i train with him the more i get to know him and the more im becoming attracted to him. hes just so perfect in everyway and hes exactly what im looking for. but this is then giving me anxiety as im not sure what to do.. im not sure what the rules are on clients and personal trainers dating outside the gym. i would never say anything while training with him but i thought if my feelings progress further and when we eventually stop training when i reach my goals i would like to ask to get to know him outside of the gym.. i thought of leaving the gym if i feel this way as i wouldnt want to get him in trouble or ruin his repution or it start a whole load of shit. what should i do?