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Just at the end with everything.
stressed, anxious, 2 hours sleep last night, abandonment issues.
Why do services offer you support (not here), provide assurances that they will support you through to the end and to a time you will reach that ‘safe’ place and then just drop you!
I can’t keep reaching a point where it takes months to trust to confide and open parts of myself up, then to finally feel braver only to be dropped and rewind straight back to the beginning!
This is just a mirror of my life really, and for me is affirming what I believe already, here to be chewed up and spat out!
😢
stressed, anxious, 2 hours sleep last night, abandonment issues.
Why do services offer you support (not here), provide assurances that they will support you through to the end and to a time you will reach that ‘safe’ place and then just drop you!
I can’t keep reaching a point where it takes months to trust to confide and open parts of myself up, then to finally feel braver only to be dropped and rewind straight back to the beginning!
This is just a mirror of my life really, and for me is affirming what I believe already, here to be chewed up and spat out!
😢
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Sending you some hugs
Sounds like your struggling, It's so brave for you to open up on here and seek that support, we are here for you.
I know you posted this thread earlier, how are you feeling now?!
Keep posting, we are here for you
One ok day of many bad days last week, then the person who had been with me and supported me through real hard and vulnerable times had informed me basically that is it after Wednesday the case is finished in her terms, not in mine. Im still left feeling the things I’ve aleays felt, because it’s over doesn’t mean it’s over for me.
Wishing I never had that support because I was told that would be there for me until such time I can move on from this nightmare, this obviously isn’t the case. Now I feel I’ve left myself really vulnerable and anxious.
not really sure where to go from here, sorry
hooe your ok?
Sorry to hear how your feeling, we are here for you here if you want to talk some more about things. It's a safe place for you to seek that support.
Keep talking if it helps,
im so sorry. Though i cant say i know how you feel. But do empathsis with you. Is hard when support is ended. In any terms esp when feel we have been most vunerable. It is really hard to accept sometimes and feel like no one actually cares enough to support but i dont think that is the case. I was really sad when my sexual violence adviser left me. But i remember she exactly told me "its not that i do not care - of corse i care - we just cant keep meeting up when We I have done my job" Felt abandond but guess is right. But im sorry they said theyd help you for longer. Has she referred you to someone else?
and i think it is also important to remember though as agood as getting justice can feel to some. Unfortantly doesnt fix it all. Which is really hard and im so sorry i wish i could help more.
Your right nothing can fix the past it has to come from within it would be so much easier if not being a yoyo with emotions
Thanks