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Hi, my name is Emilee

eblevins073eblevins073 Posts: 1 Just got here
edited February 2019 in Sex & Relationships
Hey, so I was asking you girls.. do you feel when you cum?? I never came before, I got really turned on and wet but I don’t think I came before. 

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    MsBingoMsBingo Posts: 64 Boards Initiate
    Hi Emilee @eblevins073

    I'm guessing like most things in life, orgasms feel a lot different from person to person. For me, they are a lot more intense than just feeling turned on or wet. However, I have noticed that orgasms in real life look a lot different to the orgasms that are shown in porn!

    There is some really great info about this on the sex and relationships info section under masturbation https://www.themix.org.uk/sex-and-relationships/masturbation which I think you might find useful!
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    chubbydumplingchubbydumpling Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    Hi Emilee

    I think @MsBingo has some solid advice so, other than to echo what she has said, my advice is just to keep exploring your body and sexuality. Focus on what feels good and run with it, and you can't go wrong. 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,558 Skive's The Limit
    edited February 2019

    from experience & from what i think ive read/heard somewhere. (So may not be that accurate) --
     you dont always feel when you 'come' as may not be that much. And doesnt happen everytime. But some people "squirt" -- will definetly know when that happens & can feel a bit like youre peeing which is why some people dont do it/relax enough &  it is fact has some pee in it even if go toilet before but is also female ejaculation. And some people feel throbbing after and all sorts but is very indivual experience

    and also what i think people get confused about is that everytime someone orgasms that they must be cuming which i dont think is true

    but it is different for everyone
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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