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"But you do it too"
It really pisses me off when people point out that I'm always moaning about how people treat me but i hardly think about how I treat other people. People always upset me directly and intentionally but I never mean to upset people and it's not direct. Like my parents are forever telling me off for stuff I do by accident or get bothered by me doing stuff I simply like to do such as sleeping in, being on my phone 24/7, procrastinating house chores and not wanting to join family activities cuz I want time to myself. And say it depends on me whether they have a go at me or not when the things I do are by accident and they have no right to tell me what to do in my spare times especially as I'm an adult. Or my siblings saying I nag them about getting on my nerves when again they upset me directly whereas people nag me for stuff I do indirectly like blowing my nose loud or imitating little kids talking and saying it over and over to myself. Or my classmates in college who upset me and then say I upset them by always suspecting they're talking about me behind my back and telling on them to a teacher and being too sensitive when they just want to have a banter with me and be my friend when I didn't want to. People may say they don't mean to be nasty to me by telling me off or teasing me but talking in that way is nasty itself whether they mean it like that or not.