I'm a male who is in a relationship with a female. I am openly bisexual, she and a selected few others are aware. We recently both made a decision to bring another gentleman in to the relationship who was also bisexual. I won't go into the details but I'm sire you can pretty much guess what the craic was.
This was all great and went on for around two weeks. On Friday said gentleman came around and I for some reason acted like a total jerk to him. My behaviour was standoffish and just vile if i'm honest. But we managed to fix the issues on the night and all was fine. At least so I thought. The next morning we all wake up and go about our normal morning routine.
I had a shower and my partner advised that she was popping out with the other gent which was cool. I trusted him and we all knew the deal that we'd made. A few hours passed and I started to get concerned so reached out to my partner but she didn't answer so tried to reachout to the gent only to find that he had blocked me on every single thing possible. No fb, insta, imessage or whatsapp. I could not communicate with him if I tried. I was out of my mind thinking the worst had happened.
A few hours later my partner reached out and said she needed space to work things out and what to do next. I asked her about the gent in question and she said give 'them' space and that he needed to work out his own sexuality which is cool but this dude entered our relationship claiming to be bisexual so we all knew what the craic was.
I'm not left in a massive house on my own and feeling pretty lonely. I don't have anyone to turn too because how on earth do I explain this mess. I'm now also confused as to whether I actually miss my female partner or whether i'm missing the relationship aspect with the male.
I just feel like everything is one big steaming pile of mess right now.