Young Carers of The Mix, we need you! Tell us about your experiences of our services and give yourself a chance to win £50 of Amazon vouchers.
I NEED HELP ASAP!!!
Reason I'm here: well recenty we have both been going through a LOT and have been quiet with each other for about a week or two. He is unbelievebly stressed with stuff and asked to meet me this morning. instead of going to mine he wanted to go for a walk he looked like he was about to cry instantly as he saw me we laughed and joked like usual and then he starts being serious and says he has somthing important to discuss with me. i panic and ask him how bad it was out of 10 and he says between a 3 and 5 so i wasnt panicking by then. we sit down and he struggles to say it (we both have the strongest bond going and always known we wanted to be long term and made it clear we would work through every problem that hit us) he struggles to find words and looks very very sad, i comfort him and he keeps saying that he cant tell me again and again. i questioned him about stuff and i said "is it to do with us" he said it was and proceeds to cry and say "were both in a stressful place right now and its not going to change anytime soon, i feel differenr about us over the last 2 weeks and i feel really different, its not the same as it was ect ect" we both sit there crying and somthing inside me knew that that wasnt what he wanted to tell me becayse it was so unlike him, and maybe he chickened out last second. we sat in silence for about 30 mins and i said i was going home i say good bye and leave. i look behind as im leaving and he has his head in his hands crying. i instanlty turn around and go back, but he doesnt see and leaves. i ring him and hes at home and we just sit on the phone for 40 mins in silence just crying. i ring my friend and he tries to ring me again, this time we kind of discussed stuff but h keeps saying "i cant explain, i just cant" and we get frustraited with each other and i hang up (we have never had any form of argument or even come close) i text him back and apologise but we havnt spoken since. i dont know what to do. all of my friends are confused because this is so out of character like they all agree he usually adores me. please help i dont want to loose the love of my life