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Suffocated
Siena
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This may sound like nothing and a first world problem and ungrateful . But i feel really suffocated by everyone. I feel like they are constantly in my face. And i need my personal space. Mostly my sister I feel like i can't do anything without them knowing. I feel controlled. I have no appointments til DBT. So i cant even use that as excuse to go out and my sister is friends with my friends so would come- if i said that where im going. If i say im going just for a walk they will follow Incas it to stock up on pills.
I work at the same place as my sister and we are studying the same thing in college and in the same class!
I can't even stay in bed for a while without being dragged out. I can't even go on my phone for to long because it's called un socialable. And then instead I'm forced to watch things i don't want to watch with them. I hte films right now. I dont have the concentration. I should be able to make descison on whether i want to blankly stared at the screen or do somethint else. If im out to long after an appointment my sister rings me and asks when im back.
I've damaged my esophagus and I'm on anti biotics. So i can't even go toilet without someone being concerned of my where abouts. But my eating and all that is fine now. I dont want surgery. I have no privacy. Yet i was frustrated and thought no one cared the other day and now im seeing they do - it's annoying. I think personal space and privacy is really importan. And i feel like im being controlled. And that feeling leads me wanting to restrict.
In a way it makes me suicidal because i just want to get away from people and be on my own for once. And feels like the only way. I just want to be by myself. And its making me so moody and miserable. I just feel like getting a taxi late at night and going anyway away from everyone and everything and living somewhere and starting a new life. Unrealistic with tenner to my name though.
Help:( I feel at los end. Does anyone else feel like people are to much sometimes? Or how you spend time by yourself if you do? Should this even affect me? Or i should be grateful people care And Any advice would be great.
I work at the same place as my sister and we are studying the same thing in college and in the same class!
I can't even stay in bed for a while without being dragged out. I can't even go on my phone for to long because it's called un socialable. And then instead I'm forced to watch things i don't want to watch with them. I hte films right now. I dont have the concentration. I should be able to make descison on whether i want to blankly stared at the screen or do somethint else. If im out to long after an appointment my sister rings me and asks when im back.
I've damaged my esophagus and I'm on anti biotics. So i can't even go toilet without someone being concerned of my where abouts. But my eating and all that is fine now. I dont want surgery. I have no privacy. Yet i was frustrated and thought no one cared the other day and now im seeing they do - it's annoying. I think personal space and privacy is really importan. And i feel like im being controlled. And that feeling leads me wanting to restrict.
In a way it makes me suicidal because i just want to get away from people and be on my own for once. And feels like the only way. I just want to be by myself. And its making me so moody and miserable. I just feel like getting a taxi late at night and going anyway away from everyone and everything and living somewhere and starting a new life. Unrealistic with tenner to my name though.
Help:( I feel at los end. Does anyone else feel like people are to much sometimes? Or how you spend time by yourself if you do? Should this even affect me? Or i should be grateful people care And Any advice would be great.
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I'm not good right now all of sudden. - Im a waste of oxygen and i should just kill myself and it's been finally approved without any prompt. No one has ever told me anything so hurtful or abusive.
I want to die
My life is fine. Nothing's going to change now . I'm not being abuse nothing. What am i even expecting to change. I expect to much of life and if i can't ever be happy - no matter what . i don't want to ever be here.
Yes -My family would be upset but they also dont know what good for them. In the long run. I'm bringing everyone down with me. They don't deserve that. Or to see me like this.
I say I want to help people and i think the only way I'm going to do that is not being here. People will be able to carry on with their lives without me weighing them down.
As stupid as this sounds i feel like there's a certain percentage who are officially diagnosised with anorexia and BPD die and i can lower that rate for other people by dying My self. I know it doesn't exactly work like that - so i dony kbow why I'm thinking it.
My family took my to hosptial because i was asking them to take me abroad where euthanasia is ok. I'm fucking disgusting and thoughtless.
My therapy finished Tuesday and it was more upsetting then i was imagining and I wouldnt say we left on bad terms but i feel like we did and feels like it didn't end properly . Just bit of disagreement but i agree with him now.
Because he was saying things and drawing cycles of my behaviour and thoughts one being - I'm looking for perfect. I thought great you're saying I'm looking for attention by harming myself. And dismissed his explanation. That I've had years to cope wirh my own emotions without assistance of my parents. And that is what is on the survival hierarchy. And now I seek help by self harming and said it's perfectly ok. But i feel like I'll forever not be able to cope with my feelings by myself or how to express my feeling. And constantly need reassurance and assistance
I've self harmed again but I dont want to tell anyone and I'm not sure why and want to leave it to faite.
And ill be using this far less because i am going to cope on my own. Thank you Adian.
Do you want to get more support again could this be why you want to leave it until you fainte?
stay strong how you feeling at the moment?
This does get better I promise
Sorry.
And ah i meant ill leave it to fate. Like just let it decide it's self cause I didn't want to be alive but i didn't want to die either
And i will be fine now, i made myself be ill. I coildnt go hospital cause they nearly sectioned be last night.
Themix- please could you delete my replies to this original post. Thanks sorry
We're twins but not fucking conjoined twins
Are you feeling any better? Have you tried talking to your family and telling them that you do still need your personal space etc etc... You're definitely not a waste of space and you help a lot of people on these forums too! We've noticed how helpful you are to a lot of other people and we are definitely grateful to have you here! You have our full support and if you need anyone to talk to we're all here! Just remember all the times you said you were feeling better and remember that these feelings are often temporary!
Drea
I've tried speaking to them but they don't dee where im coming from. But i think how I feel is reasonable? And seems like nothing to them so they dont change.
I tried speaking to ny sister a while ago but she blamed me for her failing:( and i just feel guilty. As soon as I've finished college today I'm going home and applying for jobs.
I'm fine I'm just a bit stressed thank you:)
Drea