I hate my family!!

Former Member

My parents are all judgemental, condescending and despicable. They believe they are always right and once they do stuff that we perceived as fallacious, they will do anything but to admit their wrongdoings. They victimise themselves when they 'accidentally' talk about the incident with others and said, 'Oh, I wish I had never born such piece of xxxx', or 'He has treated filial piety as nothing, that piece of xxxx' blah blah blah...

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I know it is wrong, but I can't help myself with such devious thoughts. Can you guys give me some guidance to deal with it?

JustV

Hey Theodore,

Welcome to the community. :wave:

Just to let you know, I edited out the part of your post that was a little too graphic and descriptive for the community. It's totally okay to talk about these feelings towards others, but we do need to keep things as user-friendly as possible. I hope that makes sense.

I can tell things are super difficult with your parents, and it can't be easy living with such a tough relationship with them. I can't imagine what it's like to hear them talk about you in that way. Have you ever open and honestly talked with your parents about how things are?

Relate have some information and live support options for anyone struggling with relationships, whether they're romantic or family-related. I'd really recommend taking a look as this sort of thing is what those guys specialise in.

Also, it's completely okay to feel the way we feel. I mean we can't control that, right? Sometimes thoughts can seem scary and they might come under what is usually deemed wrong by society, but either way everything you feel is completely valid.

Well done for reaching out here, it's very commendable. Let us know how you get on.