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Siena
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Hi. I realise i have posted alot considering ive onlt been joined for about three days. But i keep things to my self even in therpay
“And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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But its nearly the end of the year and i have this years and last years work to do as well as work experience. Its all so overwhelming. Iam still so very ill. I cant motivate myself and i can only think about food.
I did well in school and feel like my family are also putting this pressure on me to do well and go uni. As well to be happy but i cant get anywhere
But if i cant cope with college how would i cope with uni? I dont even know what work i have to do from last year cause the teachers dont help
I dont know what to do, it all a mess. I cant see myself getting anywhere until in better
How about u take things in steps, get the main things you need done first regards to college, whatever needs to be handed in first, take your time and do that. You could set them as goals.
try not to think about the future or your family pressurising you at the moment. Theres nothing you can do about that. Get your self organised is the best advice I could give you, is there anyone at college you could go to, to find out what u need to do for last year? Just take it in steps
I think tbey think i get enough support for services that i dont need theres. But their just as useless and there focus isnt on ny work.
Its a full time corse and with a part time job, is hard for any one.
Thank you
It sucks that the tutors aren't helping you, considering that's what there paid to do, we had a really shit tutor for computer aided design, she was terrible and no one knew what they were doing, I just really wanted to quite at the time and give up. But I got through it and you can to, it's great that you've tried to get yourself organised but with no help it is bloody hard, what are thinking of doing, do u have any plans you could try, I know you have probably tried everything, but is there anything else?
Like to hear that someone understands me but also ashame. I hope that youre on tract but It is so hard. Must not be getting paid enough to bother
Its temptinto give up my job even though its fine just dont have time for it. Hoe you find a job soon! And happy birthday for a few days!
I do jewellery design, it can be fun but I get way to nerves getting up out of my seat to use the machines and torches, I just start panicking and that's how I start falling behind, because am to scared to get off my arse and walk across the class room in front of everyone.
If it reduces your stress and gives u more time to concentrate it might not be a bad idea, is there a way u could take a brake from work, I don't know if they do that sort of thing, like if they hold ur job for you for a certain amount of time.
Thank you, I had an interview the other day for a call center but of course I found an excuse not to go (was to afraid of the typing and role play)
Thank you :d it's on the 15th, getting older lol
Does sound fun and practical. You should get help if you get to nervous?
I think work places can hold your position but im not exactly on the best side with my manger by not turning up a lot 😂
I was afaid of the thought of goint work cause im really a shy and nervous person domt have anxiety but now iam working in such a busy placr and gets your confident up. So you would do better in your corse. Even if the first few weeks of work are dreadful but work helps
am worried that if I go get help about the nerves that they would just put me on pills, I don't trust my self being around to many to be honest,
hahaha, that would be me to lol, best work day is no work day (apart from pay day)
aye, I think your right there, that work helps confidents up, I bet that the first few weeks are dreadful, thats the most scary part, not knowing what your doing and having the fear of messing everything up but it would also be nice to earn money to.
They could put you on pills, but theres therapy aswell! But they dont tend to just trow pills at people.
Definietly there were many days that i was panicing and just didn't want to go but now it doesnt bother me, even rude customers! And earning money and pay day is my faviourate part
aye, sorry about that, watching to many old films where u say one thing that society doesn't agree with and you get thrown away with pills,
That's great that you've got that confident, sounds like a job is the answer to all my problems :chin:,
yep, got to love pay day!