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recovering from sexual abuse.

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 17,476 The Mix Honorary Guru
can anyone tell me how to move on after sexual abuse ? a lot has gone on but all I want to do now is get past it ( I don't want to go to counselling) .
I flinch almost every time my fiancé try's to passionately kiss me or do anything more. ​I go along with it cause I don't want to stop being intimate with him but it make me feel horrible and its making every sexual encounter feel like abuse. my partner knows how I feel and understands but still struggles when I'm flinching as it makes him feel unattractive and unloved.
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