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staying on my own for ever

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Health & Wellbeing
starting to think i be on my own for ever never going to be with anyone or have a family or a home :(

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey Sian,

    I'm sorry you're feeling like this at the moment *hug* Is there something that's happened to cause you to feel this way?

    It's good to see you posting here when you need an outlet - does it help for you to come and post in those moments?

    There's always someone around on here if you want to talk :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    raich wrote: »
    Hey Sian,

    I'm sorry you're feeling like this at the moment *hug* Is there something that's happened to cause you to feel this way?

    It's good to see you posting here when you need an outlet - does it help for you to come and post in those moments?

    There's always someone around on here if you want to talk :)

    just have no one there for me when i need them yet am all there for other people yet when it comes to it and i need bit og love and support no one around i am not sure if it helps or not just h8 feeling alone all the time guess its nice to have people to talk to.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do you feel able to ask for support when you need it? Sometimes the people around us aren't sure how to help - I wonder if you feel able to ask for what you need? Whether that's a listening ear, a hug, a distraction?

    *hug*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi, Sianloveronald.

    Hope you are feeling okay. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sianloveronald wrote: »
    starting to think i be on my own for ever never going to be with anyone or have a family or a home :(

    Except for a 'home'....I know how you feel.....All my mates are settling down and I'm not. It's ridiculous that I can't find anyone to go out with !! :(
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    JustVJustV Community Manager Posts: 5,313 Part of The Furniture
    SpinTires wrote: »

    Except for a 'home'....I know how you feel.....All my mates are settling down and I'm not. It's ridiculous that I can't find anyone to go out with !! :(

    Hey SpinTires,

    It sounds like you're pretty frustrated about this which is totally understandable. I just wanted to let you know that, if you feel you would benefit from doing so, we would encourage you to create your own thread about this in the Sex & Relationships section for more tailored support. Having posts relating to you together in your own space also helps people keep track of things, too. :)
    The truth resists simplicity.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mike wrote: »

    Hey SpinTires,

    It sounds like you're pretty frustrated about this which is totally understandable. I just wanted to let you know that, if you feel you would benefit from doing so, we would encourage you to create your own thread about this in the Sex & Relationships section for more tailored support. Having posts relating to you together in your own space also helps people keep track of things, too. :)

    Nah, think I'll pass thanks. I hardly use this site, too busy with photography and looking for a new job, been at it for 3 years.......
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teenaging wrote: »
    Hi, Sianloveronald.

    Hope you are feeling okay. :)

    not great wbu
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    TheMixTheMix Posts: 3,040 Boards Guru
    Hey sianloveronald, just wondered how things have been going as we haven't heard from you in a while?

    You were struggling I think with putting a lot in to helping others but not always being able to ask for support in return - hope you're doing okay, have you been able to ask for some help or talk to anyone? *hug*

    Jo
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The Mix wrote: »
    Hey sianloveronald, just wondered how things have been going as we haven't heard from you in a while?

    You were struggling I think with putting a lot in to helping others but not always being able to ask for support in return - hope you're doing okay, have you been able to ask for some help or talk to anyone? *hug*

    Jo

    hello i am trying to do my best but don't i just feel so sad all the time like i never be happy again i am so very tired of feeling sad and down all the time so scred of doing anything in life as i fear something to go wrong like it normal dose no friends no family no life :( just don't no what to do anymore :'(
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