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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I have been married for 23 years but I am starting to have feelings and wondering what it would be like to have sex with a man. I have no idea how to go about something like that. How would you find someone to expierment with or teach you.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Try vivastreet.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Mod Posts: 213 Trailblazer
    Hi jdouglas

    It sounds like you're feeling confused about your sexuality at the moment. Feeling curious about these kinds of feelings is normal, whether you're in a relationship or single, however it could be worth considering your partner's feelings before exploring any new options.

    Because this is a site aimed at 16 - 25 year olds, you might be able to get more help with your problem from a website aimed at adults. Here are some suggestions:

    http://www.themockturtle.com/

    http://www.relate.org.uk/

    http://www.7cupsoftea.com/

    I hope this is helpful :)

    Sarah
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,875,648 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You said you have been married for 23 years... if you were to experiment with another man have you considered the fact that you would be cheating on your wife?
    How would you feel if she cheated on you? (if roles were reversed)

    Did you always have these attractions deep down or have you met a male figure whose company you enjoy and are mistaken these feelings for attraction?

    When you have thought about these issues and are still curious to be with a man, look in the lonely hearts ads in papers, plenty of them want no strings attached sex
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