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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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how do you deal with it?

i sometimes just want to go and hide at home and never show my face again, but other times i just think 'fuck them, i dont care what people think of me' and carry on as usual.

which do u find more effective? i think i would say the later

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: embarassment
    Originally posted by blonde__batman
    how do you deal with it?

    i sometimes just want to go and hide at home and never show my face again, but other times i just think 'fuck them, i dont care what people think of me' and carry on as usual.

    which do u find more effective? i think i would say the later


    Depends on the situation - do you have a more specific example in mind?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: embarassment

    if im ever embarrassed i'll just laught it off and make a joke out of it. ive got high self esteem so it wouldnt bother me at all. i cant remember anything major embarrasing thats happened to me..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I laugh at myself, it takes the embarrasment away. If you can laugh at something stupid you do then thats a good thing :D

    Mind having said that the last thing i was embarrased about was falling over in the town, so I jumped up, put my head down and walked away very quickly :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BeckyBoo
    I laugh at myself, it takes the embarrasment away. If you can laugh at something stupid you do then thats a good thing :D

    Yeah. If I obsessed over every night of bad dancing or every time I sang to my Walkman in the street, I'd never stop cringing.

    Best just to laugh.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: embarassment
    Originally posted by DiamondGeezer
    Depends on the situation - do you have a more specific example in mind?

    yeah i do but its complitcated to explain. just wanted peoples general opinions
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm the same, sometimes I think 'fuck it why should I have to worry about what they think.' then get on with what I was doing. Definatly the best way to handle the situation imo.

    Problem is with me I sit down later on and think 'god I'm such an idiot for making an idiot of myself :('.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I get embarrassed way too easily, I tend to go bright red, and my voice goes all shaky, and then that embarrasses me even more, so I get worse, and that's even MORE embarrassing.

    It's a vicious (sp?) cycle.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I tend to pretend I didn't find it embarrassing, and try to carry on as normal, but generally be incredibly awkward, and generally dig myself an even deeper hole.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This got me thinking about my worst ever embarrasing moment :eek2:

    it was when i was about 12 and we went on a school holiday at this complex thingy, for a weeks hols. Anyway all the class were there and we were hiking and I went and stood in a big cow patt, it was horrible, and everyone took the piss outta me :lol::lol:

    I never did live that down at school :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rachie004
    ok how come that ^^^^ came out like that? :confused::confused::confused:

    Because the astrixed letters form a rascist term. The same thing happened to me once.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i normally laugh it off.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Usually when I get/am embarrassed I usually just want to go home and hide or just find some dark corner and just stay there until everyone is gone.
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