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Trying to lose the shyness
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Hey all
Well Yay excitement for the first time in about a year i have the house entirely to myself for 2 nights and the boy is coming over to make the most of it.................
he has been dropping hints lately that i dont seem too into it when we have sex ....... and so i wanna make our time really good. I get kinda scared about initiating stuff so i was hoping you guys could give me some hints of stuff i can do to be a bit more forward and in control but not too over the top for a shy little one!!
*hugs*
Well Yay excitement for the first time in about a year i have the house entirely to myself for 2 nights and the boy is coming over to make the most of it.................
he has been dropping hints lately that i dont seem too into it when we have sex ....... and so i wanna make our time really good. I get kinda scared about initiating stuff so i was hoping you guys could give me some hints of stuff i can do to be a bit more forward and in control but not too over the top for a shy little one!!
*hugs*
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But if this is something you want to do but are just unsure as to how to go about it then simply ask him what it is that he would like. You're not psychic and i doubt you want to go through the trial-and-error business of finding out what pushes someone's buttons.
In a situation like this, communication is very important. Do like the AA says: just aask
have fun.