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Ok this might be for no reason but at the moment im really down 
Some of you may know that i went out yesterday with a girl i really like, heres the story:
Towards the end of our "date" she was saying to me in a sarcastic and joking way "oh youve blown it now, youve blown it"....This really hurt me and i have taken it really hard...
She thought i called her a bitch because at one point i said "are we having a bitch fight?" when we was jokingly arguing about something silly..
After the date i text her asking if i had really blown it and she said "no not really" after that she also said i looked nice too...
Now i feel really bad for not making a move in the cinema and also i feel terrible because i think iv blown everything out of proportion...
Can both boys and girls help me on this one because i really do feel bad, i know a lot of you are nice people and all your help will be greatly appreciated!!
Thank you
Some of you may know that i went out yesterday with a girl i really like, heres the story:
Towards the end of our "date" she was saying to me in a sarcastic and joking way "oh youve blown it now, youve blown it"....This really hurt me and i have taken it really hard...
She thought i called her a bitch because at one point i said "are we having a bitch fight?" when we was jokingly arguing about something silly..
After the date i text her asking if i had really blown it and she said "no not really" after that she also said i looked nice too...
Now i feel really bad for not making a move in the cinema and also i feel terrible because i think iv blown everything out of proportion...
Can both boys and girls help me on this one because i really do feel bad, i know a lot of you are nice people and all your help will be greatly appreciated!!
Thank you
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I think what your problem may be is similar to mine (though I'm not sure)... You analyse things too much and keep thinking about what could have happened. If you relax a bit then you will worry less about what could happen if you do the wrong thing and you'll act instinctively on what you want. Which is most likely what she wants as well
No damage done mate just get back in there
Her saying you looked nice is just bonus points
You are right though, iv always taken things too seriously and start getting paranoid.
So do you think shes just playing around then?
Anyway, thanx for the reply m8 youve helped me a lot over the last few days :thumb:
Im seeing her at college again monday so i will speak to her then and i will see how things go...
Your a nice person ShyBoy i appreciate the help, i will try and concetrate on being more relaxed and normal around her, hopefully things will get better then..
THANK YOU
good luck :thumb:
Kids, bless.
Im 17
Looks like she wernt joking, i asked her today if i annoyed her and she said that i did....
I was in a happy mood as well untill now and im depressed again...
I asked how i could make it up to her and she said she will let me know..
Help please :crying: :crying: :crying:
Jess
Don't be so pompous! She looking for you to take the lead not ask her if you've upset her, relax and take a chill pill. It's ok to be nervous, but don't show it so much and ask immature questions. She'll lose all respect for you if you keep acting like a little boy.
Stop asking if you annoyed her, if you had really annoyed her she would have let you know. Sheesh talking as a female if you had pissed me off boy oh boy you would have known
Harmless, you may of called me an immature little boy but your right, iv got to stop acting all nervous and stand up for myself...
Once again thanx everyone, il see how things go
I know that this was meant for you, but since I have read the responses, from others, who have posted before me, I feel like I should try some of this stuff, with my experiences as well.
Good luck to you m8 and hope things work out well for you.