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When you sleep in the same bed with your partner, how do you sleep?
Facing each other, backs to each other...
I know we all like the thought of sleeping in each others arms, but do you really do that all night?
If you wake up in the middle of the night, are you still holding them or what?
Facing each other, backs to each other...
I know we all like the thought of sleeping in each others arms, but do you really do that all night?
If you wake up in the middle of the night, are you still holding them or what?
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But when he was, we just slept seperate most the times, like 2 different people in 2 different beds... only it was one bed. Once in a while his arm would be around me
Oh, with a girlfriend. I see.
In that case, sometimes one or the other cuddled up to the other's back (spooning), sometimes facing each other (often holding hands). Sometimes back to back, wiggling bums against each other. There's no point in making a point of cuddling up if one of you just can't get comfy in that position.
I generally only fall asleep cuddling up when I'm really tired and exhausted, otherwise I can become uncomfortable quite quickly, and have to move. I'm a bit of a fidget in bed.
Mr_Wobble
We usually manage to sleep in very bizarre and unusual positions which are surprisingly comfortable but very tangled... but then we wake up at opposite ends of the bed.
And he steals the duvet.
Sleeping really isn't my favourite activity in bed with my boyfriend...
And 95% of the time when we wake up, we're still cuddled up, tis quite sickening actually :rolleyes:
we sleep a lot more cuddled up when it colder at night, in summer i just tend to be sprawled out naked on the bed
I dont have to wait a whole year do I? :flirt:
I would normally try to sleep cuddled up- but I can only real sleep on my stomach kinda to the side, so I always end up like that. I try still holding hands or whatever but normally just till she is asleep!
Do you sleep on your stomach?
NO!
Well then- can I?
not if you get me hot and turn the heat up doctor lurve :flirt:
then we usually do spoons, but then we just stick to each other .
then we go into usual sleeping position which is me on my stomach and him on his side with his arm round me, both facing the same way (towards the wall).
thats on a general night.
when its the winter we always snuggle as close as we can cuz it gets cold and i have a thing about leaving the electric blanket on at night.
It's nice to cuddle up and stuff but you soon get uncomfy, so we just sleep however we feel comfortable.
auw
sorry i haven't ever slept with a partner and every1 here seems to be puttin me off but that was a sweet one so hey
Thinking it about it now, with the majority of my ex's i've ended up waking in the morning curled up into them with my back against their chest and an arm wrapped round me. Must admit that's a lovely feeling
*shuts up* i'm going soft in my old age :yuck: