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no1 wants me
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Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
It ain't fair, no1 likes me (as more than a friend! I DO have m8s! lol) I dunno wot i'm doin wrong. I'm quite funny, caring, blah, blah, blah, wots wrong?
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Just show them you don't care if everyone likes you or if everyone loves you. I am sure you will get results.
Of course no-one is going to like you as "more than a friend" if all you do is mope about it, no-one likes a whinger. Im sorry to be harsh, but basically you can only be liked if you like yourself, and you dont seem to. Rather than sitting at home worrying about not having a lass, go out with your mates and have fun, and as soon as you stop looking for one youll have them queuing round the block- desperation is such a turn-off.
It's all about confidence and self belief. As Kermit said, stop moping about wondering why no-one wants you. Go out. Enjoy yourself. Stop looking for it as you'll never find it. It will find you. When you least expect it.
No one wants a desperate bloke. Its so like not attractive. Stop whinging and well just get on with it!
It sounds like you need to believe in yourself more - the power of self belief is amazing! Check out our features on self esteem:
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*raises eyebrow*
And thats gonna help isn't it.............
What we do with our lives in nothing to do with you. You ask us a question, we give our opinion, then you have the cheek to insult us.
Light your blowtorches!
I'm a nerd? Prove it.
Oh and text talk doesn't go down too well either.
Thanks
CB
Wanker.
I don't just 'sit here waiting for messages'. I'm doing a Business Studies project and popping on here for breaks. You don't know fuck all, just crawl back into your hole and die.
T ext T alking T wat.
Agree:yes:
If he looks at the top of the page he'll see why!
Some peoplem just a bit grumpy by the sounds of it!
But his(mini) point is basically quit whimpering about it and get out and do something about it! Which I can agree with!
And we were getting along so well.
Jesus, you actually found your way out of the Sport Forum. A slightly dissapointing suprise.
When are you going to stop with these cheap ineffective insults?
Chill. You asked for some advice on a problem and we responded with some suggestions.
And you can't go around having a dig at peoples lives.
Some of the people on here have genuine social problems. They might be uncomfortable going out or being in large crowds.
Some of them come and go. Popping on for some help or advice (Like you did) on a situation or problem that they are uncomfortable with or embarressed about.
Some (Myself included) use it as a time-killer at work.
Some use it as they have made some good friends.
Infact there are some people on here who have met up with other forum users, fallen in love, getting married and having babies.
Just because we spent time on the boards does not mean we are all sad losers. It is just another form of communication.
So think before you post.
Some people eh?! heh
...and he wonders why he cant get laid *shrug*
I didnt know they had bad-tempered trolls at Chester Zoo. Goes to show you...