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Matching tat's?
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Does anyone have a matching tattoo with a current/former boy/girlfriend and do you like/regret it?
If so, will you get it removed? Or is it in an unnoticable spot?
For those who don't have one, would you consider ever getting one?
To answer my own question, no I do not have one, and yes, I might consider one, but not a name, a symbol of some sort.
If so, will you get it removed? Or is it in an unnoticable spot?
For those who don't have one, would you consider ever getting one?
To answer my own question, no I do not have one, and yes, I might consider one, but not a name, a symbol of some sort.
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Mr_Wobble
Wouldn't want to do it personally, cos of the whole splitting-up possibility, but these two are still going strong after 3 years and they're now living together, so I guess he doesn't regret it.
I wouldn't consider it, not unless we got really really serious - I'm talking together for years and years, and planning to be together forever and get married etc. And even then I don't think I could do it. If I did, though, I'd go with the symbolic thing, rather than just having a name tattoed on me.
No, not yet. I know I will regret any tattoo if I got one right now.
Like LSS said, I'd only consider it after years and years with someone, still happy, married/want to get married, etc.
but its like a proven fact that if you get your s.o. name tattoed on you, your bound to break up
and instead of the normal wedding vows, we're having filth vows
its all true!
lol ooohhh dear!
I know a few couples who have either had their partners initials tattooed on their ring finger after marriage, or the date of their wedding. i think thats quite nice.
my partner doesnt have any tattoos, and he probably never will, but I have a very small 'K' and 'J' that's linked together in a sort of patern on my lower abdomen. its so low no one will ever see it unless i show the,, or they see me naked of course!
I dont regret it at all, and i know that i never will, even if we split up - because we've gone through a hell of a lot together, and even if things turned out for the complete worse and we didnt even talk anymore (which i dont believe would havppen for one minute), he will always have a very special place in my heart, and will always be my little's girls daddy, if not biologically - but he's the one who has raised her, so we'll always be together in some sense of the word.
its more of a symbol of everlasting friendship than it is of 'i love you'
it's just ASKING to break up.
one of my old friends and her boyfriend both had tattoos, not matching or anything, but they each chose something they liked, and had it in the same place, so it was kinda symbolic, but meant no explaining if they ever broke up. which i thought was quite nice.
i think they're still together.