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OK, what is the 1st things girls notice about guys when out clubbing? "Apparently" (or so pretty much all the girls i chat to on the net tell me) i'm gorgeous, and yet i never get any attention in the clubs. So i'm thinking the 1st thing girls see is how the guys dance?! I cant, ya see. Is this my problem?
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i spose if a guy was having a laugh with his mates i'd notice that.
tis so unfair....
you don't have to dance, or dance that well. girls are usually focusing too much on how they look to notice what exactly what you're doing..unless you're doing some rather freaky moves..
i get where ya coming from about the attractiveness of blokes who look like they're enjoying themselves. but its hard to look like that when ya been left on ya own guarding drinks from over efficient glass collectors :eek2:
I don't know if dancing is the first thing girls notice, or if they're attracted by a good dancer. But you shouldn't worry about it, and just get out there and dance.
For many years I'd convinced myself that I just couldn't dance, and many would say I still can't :impissed: But now I just don't care. The best thing is to practice in your own room, curtains shut, doors locked. Dance like a loon. Go with the rhythm as best you can. Then go out dancing, and try not to have too much to drink, and don't be concerned about looking like a tit.
One of the things that I find helps is dancing to 70's or 80's (check clubs for 70's & 80's nights) - everybody knows the tunes, can sing along with the songs, and there are sort of dancing moves that you can pick up from watching everybody else, then copy.
The more you practice, the better you get. Go for it!
Mr_Wobble
I wouldn't say I know the moves (or look like y'know?), but I can get awaywith dancing ok. Did a bit of dancing last night, got complimented on it, and got a kiss from a girl afterwards (nothing tonguey, just a nice kiss on the lips).
Mr_Wobble
ummmmm.......i'll let you know when it comes to me :chin:
no seriously, it was one of the factors that attracted my favorite lady from holiday. so i suspose it can help. although at home it doesn't really help at all. not one bit.
i never 'pull' in pubs or clubs. cus i can't be bothered really. oh well
.......pointless post................ oh yeah, stressed is in the running for best av. clearly
nah....:no: :chin:
Just look like you're having a good time, oh I dunno....*crawls back into corner*.....:banghead:
:mad: shuuuuuuddup! You're puuuuurdy