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Faking it
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Most people i know are totally against faking it while having sex, even if it's a one night stand. They think it's wrong and you should tell your partner what the problem is. I've only ever faked it twice and i was just wondering what you think about it.
Girls, how many of you have faked it?
And guys how would you feel if you found out your g/f had been faking it?
Lxx
Girls, how many of you have faked it?
And guys how would you feel if you found out your g/f had been faking it?
Lxx
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so no, i havent ever faked it, and i dont think i would becuase it dont seem that fair on the other person
xxx
In a relationship though you'd only have sex with one person. If he doesn't satisfy, faking it would only make him feel that he IS satisying you when in actuality he is not.
If he's crap then tell him you'd rather do it a certain way and get the problem sorted.
it leads you to believe that you are satisfying that person and making them feel good, when actually all they're bothered about is getting it over and done wit'.
and if you do it repeatedly, then it's gonna harm both of you. the guy's gonna think he's doing something right and keep on doing it (like a good boy), and she's just gonna fake it every time!
i've had a talk with my girlfriend at the beginning of our relationship and asked her honestly to never ever fake anything.
cos it'd be like faking your feelings for each other...
i'd rather her tell me she's tired/not in mood/had enough/feeling sore/can't be arsed/not horny etc... rather than put up with my efforts to please her and not enjoy it and make me feel like i've achieved something.
at least i know that her feelings and moans are genuine, which gets me turned on more as well!
i'm a realistic person and understand that majority of women don't come every single time from plain intercourse alone (unless you're a god and/or been together for a long time and know EXACTLY how to please her, even then, women have to be in right mood in the right scene....) i make my girl cum other ways (oral and fingering), she only came a few times during normal intercourse and we're improving on that (communicating) and she gets quite close every time, but there are things that sometimes put her off and she don't quite get there....but at least she's not stroking my ego and making me believe i'm something i'm not!
Girls, don't fake it - talk about it. Tell, talk, show.
Mr_Wobble
hmmm seems a little extreme :crazyeyes
probably a beter way to go about things would be communication!
Because they think men give a fuck!