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Is this normal??

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Well my bf and i lost our virginities to each other last night. it was ok, not earth-moving or anything. but it was nice and im glad i lost it to him.

anyway, the thing is, he said he didnt really left himself cum alot, he held back, as he didnt wanna go firing right into me the first time. also, a couple of hours after we did it the 1st time, i was up for it again, but he said no, we should wait and ease into it.

all of this confused me. isnt it usually the guys who are usually more up for it than the girls? plus he wouldnt let himself cum much. is all of this normal?

any opinions/experiences/comments gratefully received, thanks

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Is this normal??
    Originally posted by paperdoll
    Well my bf and i lost our virginities to each other last night. it was ok, not earth-moving or anything. but it was nice and im glad i lost it to him.

    I was gona lose mine lastnight but we got abit uncomfortable cos we were in this field lol!

    Anyway, is he a very confident person?How long had you been doing 'other stuff'?I think he might be a bit uncomfortable!But the more times you do sexual stuff the more confident he will get!And he prob wont be able to stop!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes hes very confident about "other stuff" and we've been 2gether for over a year, so thats not the issue. i think it prob just is nervousness, yeah. i wish hed hurry up and get over it tho, i want a right good seeing too!!

    :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by paperdoll
    yes hes very confident about "other stuff" and we've been 2gether for over a year, so thats not the issue. i think it prob just is nervousness, yeah. i wish hed hurry up and get over it tho, i want a right good seeing too!!

    :D

    Im sure he will soon darling!Just give him compliments say that hes good etc!This is what me girlfriend does to me and it makes my confidence so high, that im not nervous atall!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok, thanks for the reassurance, hope it all works out for you and your girl :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks alot!Hopfully it will!And if he aint giving you a good seeing to, tell me and ill go up and give you one!;)

    Sorry just feeling abit horny!lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    oooh, down boy!! a cold shower needed for curiouslad methinks!!

    if ur feeling like this give your girl a call!! u might get lucky :naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by paperdoll
    oooh, down boy!! a cold shower needed for curiouslad methinks!!

    if ur feeling like this give your girl a call!! u might get lucky :naughty:

    :hyper: :blush: I need to calm down so bad!

    Me girlfriends at work so i cant get lucky!Though i prob will saturday nite cos i think my parents are going out........:D :yes: :yum:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by curiouslad
    Me girlfriends at work

    Is that what she told you? :eek2:





































    :naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by D'OHnut
    Is that what she told you? :eek2:

    Yea i wish she wasnt and so does she!

    Oh and if you're impying that shes lying she bloody good at it cos i walked her to work with her uniform on!But she probably is!:(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by curiouslad
    Yea i wish she wasnt and so does she!

    Oh and if you're impying that shes lying she bloody good at it cos i walked her to work with her uniform on!But she probably is!:(

    Dear God *shoots himself*. It was a joke, bay.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by D'OHnut
    Dear God *shoots himself*. It was a joke, bay.

    Sorry im tired bay!:blush: :angel:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Though i prob will saturday nite cos i think my parents are going out........

    i cant believe you schedule you sex life!!! but good luck though hun :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well its abit hard darling when you live with your parents so any chance.....
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I also live with my parents. well, my dad :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do you honestly think that because you live with your parents the only time your going to have sex is when they go out?lol believe once you pop you just cant stop:p and you wont care if your mothers in the room never mind if shes in the house:p (yes i did exagerate of course stop when shes in the room)

    And as for the first persons problem its probably nerves, once he feels confident enough hell shoot it up you lol, just give it time and re assure him tell him how gd it was and exagerate how good somthing is when hes doing somthing really nice.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If he is a red-blooded male then ust tell him what you just said, "I want a right good seeing to!" and he will give you one! Just be really dirty, tell him you want him to shoot right up you and stuff, the dirtier you act, the hornier it will make him, and the more chance you have of getting a right good seeing to!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wahey paper doll! :D lol it finally happened then wkd!

    not sure what else to say lol.

    oh and curiouslad why du support westham! :p we beat youuuuu!!!

    h hem sorry im a bolton lass....why il never know!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by **TiNk**
    Wahey paper doll! :D lol it finally happened then wkd!

    not sure what else to say lol.

    oh and curiouslad why du support westham! :p we beat youuuuu!!!

    h hem sorry im a bolton lass....why il never know!

    hehehehe, yeh it did tink, at last!! cheers m'dear!! go me!! wooo!!

    :D:D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by paperdoll
    hehehehe, yeh it did tink, at last!! cheers m'dear!! go me!! wooo!!

    :D:D

    lol! yey go u! :p
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