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How to meet women.
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If you've read my earlier post then you'll see that I have a few problems and I'm a bit of a mess.
I think the best way to get over it would be to meet someone else and then I wouldn't feel like my worlds ending.
Problem is, it's too hard for me to go to pubs and clubs because I don't drink, live in the country, and don't have a job right now.
I've fallen out with most of my friends because of this other problem so I can't go out with them.
So any ideas of how I can meet new women?
I think the best way to get over it would be to meet someone else and then I wouldn't feel like my worlds ending.
Problem is, it's too hard for me to go to pubs and clubs because I don't drink, live in the country, and don't have a job right now.
I've fallen out with most of my friends because of this other problem so I can't go out with them.
So any ideas of how I can meet new women?
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But sorry, in reply to your actual question - get a job or go to college/uni (sorry don't know how old you are, is that appropriate?), because this'll improve your social life and help you get to know new people, both as friends and girl/friends. Also, can't you just go to pubs and clubs and not drink? Personally, I go out to socialise and not just to drink - an evening can still be fun without alcohol
Erm, I can't think of any more ideas because I'm tired so sorry, but yeah... job, go out more... join a club?
I left College last year and me and all my friends parted company and I haven't seen them since.
Does it really matter that much? It's not really that much different from going with friends, honestly. I agree it's not as much fun, but if there's no-one around it's still worth doing. Try going to a darts night or a pub quiz or something, you might meet people by doing that. Clubbing can be a good way to meet people as well.
I've found that going out on my own greatly increases my chances of pulling, or at least meeting new friends, because it forces me to talk to new people rather than just being shy and staying near my friends. The only bad part is, cos my friends aren't there, they never beleive me when I tell them who I managed to pull :rolleyes: lol
Why's it odd? If your mates aren't around it's still fun to go out so why not?
Ok, though I don't actually know where in Leicester you live? And why the emphasis on the second part of my name? Naughty boy. :rolleyes: