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shes preg..what can i say?
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Hiya, well as u all know i have an 11week old daughter yeh so ur all gona think ok whys she posting this buttt....
My best mate iz preg by her bf of 2yrz, im happy for her, but shes not happy, shes 6month preg, and she doesnt want the baby, but she's saying she cant give it up for adoption!! im really confused, what should i say to her? ive sed its ur choice, but she says to me, i dont want this stupid baby, but i cant give it up! ahh confusing, do u think she should see some one about it?
Thanx.
lotsa love Faye&Tegan xxxx
My best mate iz preg by her bf of 2yrz, im happy for her, but shes not happy, shes 6month preg, and she doesnt want the baby, but she's saying she cant give it up for adoption!! im really confused, what should i say to her? ive sed its ur choice, but she says to me, i dont want this stupid baby, but i cant give it up! ahh confusing, do u think she should see some one about it?
Thanx.
lotsa love Faye&Tegan xxxx
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Sit down with her and tell her your version of whats its like-
Ive tried that, but shes just sits there and goes i dont want it i dont want it, and ive sed well i never exactly planned Tegan did i? but ive got her and i cope ok, and all she sez it i dont want it i dont want it! shes like a broken record! so anoying, but then she sez she cant give it up!!! :banghead:
Just be there for her, I think the most important developments will occur when she has the baby.
The Silly String (not being quite so silly for a change)
Tell her to quit her moaning and live with it now!
Tell her how you survive- and how it brightens up your world.
And your pissed of about her whinging as it gets you down- and is she cant grow up outta being a baby she shouldn't of being fucking in the first place!
That`s a bit rough. I can see your point, but after all this girl is only just 16 and well, shit happens. It`s a headfuck believe me. Too late to debate whether she should have been having sex or not.
Faye... this sounds like something that only time will really sort out for her.. I don`t see what you can do apart from just be there and listen.