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hi, i was wonderin if anyone could help me, u see when i see a girl i like i dont have the confidence to go and talk to them.
i dont believe in chat up lines cos they neva work but i just seem to freeze, and then think i am going to say sumthing stupid!
wot do girls like? wot should i say?
i dont believe in chat up lines cos they neva work but i just seem to freeze, and then think i am going to say sumthing stupid!
wot do girls like? wot should i say?
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Least you will have said something.
Girls arent like another species you know. We are just girls
No, a normal hi will do.
I know it’s very hard at first, and when people say what have you got to lose. That doesn’t really help.
But the mating game is a learning curve, you need to figure out what the worse thing is that could happen……. Her saying no and giving you the brush off (So being rejected)
Being rejected isn’t that bad and once you learn to take the rough with the smooth you should gain more confidence with time
*Memo- Don’t become one of them c**t’s that ask out about 10 different girls all in front of each other, that will get you no where!*
If your going to ask a girl out and you are unsure what she’ll say
Do it so you aren’t surround by lots of people. That way, if it goes against ya, no one will really know.
*To save face, you might say to your mate* “She was a lesbian”;)
But it’s really just about being happy with yourself, overcoming your limits and being able to hold your head up high even when things don’t go your way.
Life really is a bitch!:p
*has said that*
He was a lad mind
Regards.
badseeds post
I beg to differ.