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Memory loss
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Ok I'm talking to one of my oldest mates at the moment, and I'm saying how I don't know why I just am so scared of fighting. And he's saying thats weird cos I used to beat everyone up. He says he is serious and aint takin the piss he said I smacked 3 guys at our old school.
I cant remember!!!
I cant remember!!!
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4-6 years ago.
he's got the wrong guy then. it's his memory that's faulty.
please don't worry about being scared of fighting. real men fight is a load of bollox that leads to grief. most men who fight are a serious pain in the arse for everyone else. i'm big enough and ugly enough and loud and confident enough, for most blokes to pressume i'll knock them senseless if they step out of line, so have never realy had to fight. i became aware of my intimidating charms around the age of 18 or so and used it to my adavantage whenever necessary.
i have been able to look after myself though. would you be impressed if your gp, or dentist, or local milkman had a reputation for scrapping and biting ears off? avoid trouble or get a mate who'll do the fighting while you scarper. more sensative men are needed... not more bloody morons.
yea but like, he gives laura hassle out of school so if I get mates to stand up to him in school surely itll get worse for her?
Have you tried asking him what his problem is?
yea once i was walking and he said "hey you little bastard" and i said "whats your problem" and he said "you" i think. didnt give a proper reason...
theres not much you can say to that. i think you should just try to ignore him, looks like hes just trying to provoke a reaction from you.
i can only ignore him for so long. its like, im even scared of him slightly now. i was shaking in last lesson cos i had sen him. well, im not scared of him as such i dont think, i just want him out of my life.
you could always try going up to him first, maybe in class (safety in no.s and all that) and ask him specifically why he has a problem with you and what is he trying to achive with his behaviour, which not only will put him on the spot somewhere he can't thump you but should embarrace him enough to stop when he can't find an explanation for his pathetic attitude. It could be something as simple as trying to prove to his peirs that hes just as 'hard' as them (not making excuses for him) but if you stand up to him he might go and find some one weaker to pick on. Just an idea:)
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Worked for me. Not saying that I'm right though, cause I usually never am. But people don't fuck with me any more because I beat up the guy who bullied me for several years and now they're scared that I'll hurt them too. Ah well...he had it coming.