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cheating.........?
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Hello,
i am not cheating , so please dont start having a go at me, cos i am not going to cheat as i think it is tight, i just want to know if any one else has this as well!!
Basically, my boyfriend has a mate, who is very GORGEOUS!! (Dont think i spelt that correct) and i am not going to cheat and i dont want to but i feel so incredibally attracted to him its unbelievable!! and sometimes i just think "god i would like to f*** you!" i know i sound like a dirty lil ho, i dont mean to.
i was just wondering if any one else was in a long relationship but had another person who they found incredibally sexy, and would like to..... well you know!!
i feel so aweful for feeling like this, but when he is around me i just want him. please dont hate me!! :nervous:
i am not cheating , so please dont start having a go at me, cos i am not going to cheat as i think it is tight, i just want to know if any one else has this as well!!
Basically, my boyfriend has a mate, who is very GORGEOUS!! (Dont think i spelt that correct) and i am not going to cheat and i dont want to but i feel so incredibally attracted to him its unbelievable!! and sometimes i just think "god i would like to f*** you!" i know i sound like a dirty lil ho, i dont mean to.
i was just wondering if any one else was in a long relationship but had another person who they found incredibally sexy, and would like to..... well you know!!
i feel so aweful for feeling like this, but when he is around me i just want him. please dont hate me!! :nervous:
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You've done nothing wrong yet, as long as you still like your bf and aren't leading him on in anyway!, I can't see a little lust being a problem.
Just don't cheat, if you feel it's going that way, try and hold it off and dump your bf nicely before banging his best mate:p
How old are you and how long you been with bf?
Every time you see his good looking mate, just picture him doing a big fat smelly shit, the ones that force you to leave the room and hold your nose.
and with luck you should stop lusting over him, But do you think you are being fair to your bf?
*fuck, you'll get me worried over my gf now*
i feel a bit unfair, but i reckon he fantacises about shagging other girls, so not that bad.
this guy is just so devilishly goodlooking!! oh wories me :rolleyes:
Nope sorry.
I've been with my boyf for 2 &1/2 years and in all the time we've been going out I haven't wanted to shag anyone else at all. Yeah I see blokes who i think are goodlooking but that's as far as it goes. Maybe you're just not 100% serious about your boyf if you want to shag his mates :rolleyes:
i most certainly would never ever dump my boyfriend for this guy. he is a nice guy but i would never throw away a long relationship for some sex! it is more then any thing just curiosity, as i have only ever kissed one guy, my boyfriend. he has been my first for everything, so i dont think i am that tight for being curious!!
but i can honestly say i wouldnt have sex with his mate 1. because i dont ever want my boyfriend to do it to me, cos i know it would hurt like hell. 2 .i could never shit on him like that and 3. i just never would i dont believe in cheating. its a bad way of getting out of a relationship
just recently my boyfriend has not being paying me any attention, and his friend said he thought i was pretty, so mayb that is why?? bu ti am not going to cheat i woulnt do that
As long as you don't do anything and you *know* in your heart that you wouldn't, if the occassion arose whereby you could shag him, then everythings ok.