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Best way to break it off?
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I want to end my current relationship but cant for fear of breaking my girlfriends heart completely.
I want to tell her face to face and be honest with her as opposed to telling her over the phone. But I know she will instantly break down in tears and even though I dont love her its a real gut- wrenching experience(ive tried it before but could'nt handle her crying). Whats the best way to tell her I want to end it?
We've being going out about 9 months and Ive never really loved her basically its going bit stale and 'I need some space. Any ideas what o do/say? Hepl me out here peoples
I want to tell her face to face and be honest with her as opposed to telling her over the phone. But I know she will instantly break down in tears and even though I dont love her its a real gut- wrenching experience(ive tried it before but could'nt handle her crying). Whats the best way to tell her I want to end it?
We've being going out about 9 months and Ive never really loved her basically its going bit stale and 'I need some space. Any ideas what o do/say? Hepl me out here peoples
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Especailly as I feel she deserves the respect to be told face to face- its already drawn out which is making it harder
Your profile says your from birmingham- do you go to college there??
Yes I'm at uni here.
Good luck mate hope it goes ok.
Kidding, face to face is the best way, although by phone is also a good way unless you've been together a long time.
Answer any questions after, show her yous till care a bit, and leave. Don't try keeping in touch, it will only cause more hurt and upset. But just tell her straight out, don't try covering it up in things. Yes she will cry and it will make you feel like shit but the longer itgoes on the worse it will get. Trust me
Ill give it a go at the oportune moment- if it ever comes around!
Ive had that done to me and it wasn't nice :no:
especially when the guy didn't even have the guts to write the god damn message himself and had to get his mate to text me and say it :mad:
So make sure you do say it face to face and as nicely as possible, you can't keep putting it off, it will just make it harder in the long run good luck mate.
NEVER EVER EVER do it by text. that happend to me and it still hurts that someone could be that heartless.
Shame on you boo
AND he took me out all night and everything and when he dropped me off at home he dumped me! i was so confused! why had he spent the whole night with me if he was going to dump me all along?? that really hurt. plus he had said we needed to talk the day before so i was half ready to be dumped and when he spent all night with me i started to relax and think everything was ok - oh how wrong i was!:( just..dont do that..if youre going to do it do it straight away.
Hope it goes ok for you