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how do we get it thru her thick head?
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so i have this friend that been messing around with this guy (she hasn't slept with him, but getting damn near and everything else)
anyway, this guy is engaged.
she knows that he is, she even works with his fiance.
she still continues to mess around with him.
now she is spending all of her time with him. she skips class to be with him, she doesn't care what classes she needs to graduate, she is taking classes with him. (and by the way things are going, she wont' graduate)
we all have told her many times that he is just using her and he couldn't care less. and she is quite wrong for doing that.
she is convinced that he likes her, and he wants to be with her, the only reason why he is still engaged is because he doesn't want to hurt her feelings.
this, obviously, is a bunch of crap. everybody knows, and everybody has told her that if, and since, he is getting away with it, he will have it both ways. he doesn't care about her, he just wants what he can get.
we have tried to talk to her about it many many times, but she doesn't listen and just keeps going on about how he really likes her. what else can be done to make her understand? i dont' want her to get hurt, and i also don't want her to ruin somebody elses future marrige.
anyway, this guy is engaged.
she knows that he is, she even works with his fiance.
she still continues to mess around with him.
now she is spending all of her time with him. she skips class to be with him, she doesn't care what classes she needs to graduate, she is taking classes with him. (and by the way things are going, she wont' graduate)
we all have told her many times that he is just using her and he couldn't care less. and she is quite wrong for doing that.
she is convinced that he likes her, and he wants to be with her, the only reason why he is still engaged is because he doesn't want to hurt her feelings.
this, obviously, is a bunch of crap. everybody knows, and everybody has told her that if, and since, he is getting away with it, he will have it both ways. he doesn't care about her, he just wants what he can get.
we have tried to talk to her about it many many times, but she doesn't listen and just keeps going on about how he really likes her. what else can be done to make her understand? i dont' want her to get hurt, and i also don't want her to ruin somebody elses future marrige.
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Eventually she will come to her senses and see shes making a big mistake here, hopefully before any damage is done:)
If you really want to get involved to get her back into classes then tell a teacher about it, but she wont thank you for it.