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why is it that ex's have to be so horrible? my ex boyfriend treats me like shit now and tells me he h8s me and never loved me, why do they have to do that!? 
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I think it's just one of those things though...:rolleyes: they are blokes after all.;)
but he ended it with me for sum1 else, still no excuse after a yr apart for him to tell me he never loved and now hates me!
Its true, what babes r us has said, fellas do it to try to cope about a breakup most decent fellas will try to get over with it but they stil have attachment to the girl so they slag and say things they dont mean to make them feel better and to try and get over it. Basically, if they say they hate you enough times they'll actualyl believe it and move on with there lifes.
Just forget about him!
and I suppose Ex gf's don't do any crazy stuff?
No wait, Girls do all the crazy shit while your still dating them!;)
when i was 9 years old, i had a girlfriend. When she dumped me for some reason (i dont know why) i was really nasty to her, and used to tease her. I got over it, and i think so did she (but i was a bit nasty again when i was 11, but thats a horrible story that i will bury) and now whenever i have a girlfrind (last one being when i was 13!) i just sort of become indifferent when they tell me, and i think it freaks them out. Like, one time she dumped me (they usually ask me out not long after 4 some reason
If hes being an asshole, it means he aint over you, one way or another. If you give him a good talking to (make sure he shuts up and listens to you!) then he will probably stop. Police would work as well, but leave that as a final straw.