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Hiya i posted a while ago in chaos's post about my best mate being 15 now and being engaged to a 22year old.
They have a 6month old daughter and she is expecting another in March i think it is. I have always thought she was mad for doing this! i was just wondering what u lot all thought about this?
They have a 6month old daughter and she is expecting another in March i think it is. I have always thought she was mad for doing this! i was just wondering what u lot all thought about this?
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I think thats a bit sick really that a 22 year old man has to prey on a 15 year old girl. I know a girl that was going out with a 24 or 25 year old and were sleeping together, I thought that was just as sick.
WHAT?!?!
I thought the thread was about them dating, but actually expecting their second child? *shocked*
I don't get how it is possible? Why would a young girl commit to babies at such a young age, when she should be studying?
Has the world gone insane, or is it just me? *sigh*
I'm afraid this poor girl has thrown her life away, if she's only 15 she hasn't even doen her GCSE's yet! I know that qualifications aren't everything but come on!
What on earth is this bloke thinking?
The girl is not completely innocent at surely of the age of 15 you know the consequences?
I'm absolutely shocked to be honest, my views my seem over the top and some or *most* people will slate me and slag me off. But this secenario happens time and time again, the bloke will bugger off, the mother can't support her self so she relies on the state. i.e. you and I . We pay for the pair's mistake (s) in the end. :mad:
I think it's a disgrace, ok I'm being selfish but I know other people who think the same, whether they admit it is another sotry but surely people can see where I'm coming from ?
I thought this country had laws against paedophilia.
I agree with turtle, that fella should be locked up and done for child abusing. Were the hell is the girls parents? its a sad day when a 15 year old girl has 2 children!
well she did, i think its her parents tho they have no control over her, her mum had her when she was young aswell
You mean they started going out when she was 13 and he was 20?
That is just completely FUBAR, eurgh, sick bastard.
I'm not 100% on the law (and I am open to corrections), but I think the case is that if she moves out, the parents can't use the police to get her back, unless they feel that she is in danger or if the girl makes a complaint herself. Sad, but this is unfortunately the why the world works.
I'm sure that if the Police became aware, they would find a way.
and I'm sure you "mate's" boyf would just love Strangeways.
I posted one of last posts on the 'I know this.... age blah blah' thread which was one of the reasons that S_M_B started this thread...
Basically - the girl can't be forced to stay with her parents, which would be impossible to do to be honest...
The situation is complicated. I for one think that lad should be locked up. 13 and 20 - that is just unbelievable... :mad: *BUT*, if the lad were to be reported for his past, present and future crimes (by this I obviously mean sleeping with a minor in the past, present and future - at least until she is 16...), he would certainly be prosecuted - most likely 'banged up'... But this would leave the girly with 2 kids, no career prospects (unless having possibly the rep for being particularly dodgy could be considered a career
It confuses the hell out of me about these teenage pregnancy situations... More often than not - the male involved is older than the female, in fact, the male is 'normally' over 16 and so is able to be prosecuted. But - very few seem to be prosecuted... Why?
Basically - would you rather the girl stay by herself with the child whilst the chap is staying at her majesties pleasure... Or would you rather the lad faced up to his responsibilities and 'played the father'? In most of the cases that I know personally, the mother is no longer with the father and has nothing to do with them... Not ideal, but if the pregnancy was not (which is most likely the case) planned then neither of them were really ready to accept the responsibility of having a child. Fair enough. At 13, how many people are?! I know this is a rash generalisation, but unfortunately it bugs me. If you are going to have sex then you should at least have thought of the consequences...
I know this post has kind of lost its point, (alcohol + too many thoughts don't mix too well) but you get my drift.
Difficult situation.
Difficult world.
Bollocks to it...
Paedophiles... :mad:
"unless having possibly the rep for being particularly dodgy could be considered a career :confused and basically no life or 'future'"
The smiley in there was - which I hope is clear - supposed to be a confused one, not a smiley smiley...
I do not think this situation is amusing in the slightest...
G.
He is a paedophile, and as such, should never see freedom again.
There must be some law that would get the girls parents convicted of neglect also?
u trana sey im talking about myself here?!? i dont think so! im just concerned about my m8 avin a second kid really.