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one for the guys...

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
if your girlfriend had a pregnancy scare what would you prefer...

a) she tells you straight away
b) she tells either way after getting tested
c) she tells you only if the test is positive
d) she doesn't tell you if she's not planning on running with it
e) something else

cheers guys. i'd appreciate your views here.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Depends on your relationship.

    The guy would probably want to be there for you so tell immediately.

    If you would rather not/don;t think you need support then don;t say anything if either not positive, or not gonna run with it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would prefer her to tell me if she thought/knew she was pregnant. This way it is easier because the support you need is there...the two of you could then talk about what is best in the longterm. But anyway...it would be very reassuring to know my girlfriend could tell me her problems and what she is thinking.
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