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In the sex facts page on this website, one of the last items said in common sex things or whatever it's called says: All men hate using condoms - false. Then says : The only guys who dont like using condoms are ones who have no respect for you.
I find that a really bad comment, seeing as i have all the respect in the world for my girlfriend, but i dont enjoy using condoms, yes, i hate them. I dont like placing something on my dick and then being able to feel.. nothing. Its crap and its not that i have no respect for my girlfriend, its that condoms just really piss me off. Although i am responsible and ive never had sex with her without a rubber, i am just disgusted at this comment..
Your thughts?
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I find that a really bad comment, seeing as i have all the respect in the world for my girlfriend, but i dont enjoy using condoms, yes, i hate them. I dont like placing something on my dick and then being able to feel.. nothing. Its crap and its not that i have no respect for my girlfriend, its that condoms just really piss me off. Although i am responsible and ive never had sex with her without a rubber, i am just disgusted at this comment..
Your thughts?
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I bet I get moaned at for that anyway so I can't be arsed to say anymore.
i think its fair 2 say that men dont like condoms i dont, but i still wear one coz i respect my girlfriend. just coz u dont like it doesnt mean u wont.
Hopefully the women of this world don't take this twaddle as gospel and form their own opinions...
Do you want to help us rewirte some of it Sir Cum?
Oooh now you're for it. You mock the magazine and Dom steps up....
*giggles* Just wait until Koala and Snoozy get here.
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I'm sure we'll all be queuing outside Waterstones on the day of it's release :rolleyes:
i can see why some blokes wouldnt like them but im sure that any decent bloke would wear them if their gf asked them to
My boyfriend has admitted he would rather not use condoms but as he cares about me he does not mind as to him the most important thing is his girlfriend not pleasure.
Would you rather have little pleasure and safe sex with no risks of babies or loads of pleasure and a pregnant girlfriend? Just remember your choice says a lot about you. Basically what the link is saying is that if a boy refuses to use contraception is he worth getting pregnant to? The link does not set out to offend you or any others.
One day the rolleyes smiley will be banned from the Internet. And when it is, people like you will be fucked.
Nooooooooo!! :eek:
...and if you carry on like that, one day not so far away you will be banned from TheSite. Don't mess with the mods.
Nooo:rolleyes:
I’m only just learning to master my newfound skill:rolleyes:
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Maybe I still need to work on it a little more:rolleyes:
HeHe see the dominance
*waves to the young sire as he is discreetly manhandled out the door by two very large sheep*
I think using a condom is a question of responsability with yourself and with your couple. But she hates it.
I think she hates it because she thinks that if I use it is because I don't trust she is using the pill or I'm having sex with other girls.
What can i do?
Two forms are the generally accepted common sense health wise. she may believe that there is no way you two could break up so she doesn't mind the risk but you might remind her that a child is a dual obligation and it would be better for both of your lives and futures to protect against that risk as completely as possible.
Just some thoughts to consider...
That's just stupid.
I don't use condoms (with boyfriends who's sexual history I've asked about) because I don't like them not because I think that by his wearing a condom he's going to go out and shag a load of other girls. If she thought that then why on earth would she be with you in the first place?
Ive never had sex without a condom. I wouldn't. Its too high a risk. Even that small risk percentage on the pill could be enough. And myb biyfriend doesn't mind. He feels safer that way.
At the moment, I'm on depo (the contraceptive injection), AND the pill (Don't ask why, I can't be arsed explaining), so I really feel there's little need for condoms anyway.
I love that word
I can't believe it. Now I know why I should had used a condom. I always had been faithful to my gf. Until last weekend.
I could not avoid it. SHe was so perfect and she came to my appartment, and took her clothes off...
I am so sorry. I feel very bad about it and what makes me worry is that I didn't use a condom!! I was so sure that I would neverbe unfaithful that I didnt bought those...
I know her well, she is a friend of my girlfriend and she doesn't have some disease (I hope).
I am worried. Now I'll wear condoms all the time to protect my GF, until I know for sure I don't have anything.. What will I tell to my gf? I also regret the experience. I feel so guilty. Can anyone tell me how do you do to not feel guilty?
Stay faithful!
U break the rules you pay!
SoD
Speak for yourself.
If I fancy someone else I tell my gf, depending on the type of relationship we have we can usually sort something out. Leaving it 'til after is the problem.