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Bizarre Question

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Well, here we go...

Whenever my g/f and I have sex, I ALWAYS feel paranoid about not pulling out at the end. She's on the pill, and keeps on assuring me that its very safe but I just can't do it. I either a) do not come, and just wait until I'm knackered or b) pull out quickly, thus staining the sheets!

The trouble is, when I don't come, my girlfriend gets paranoid and thinks its something she's not doing right. I've tried talking to her about it but it really is very difficult.

Anyway, do any of you lot out there have the same problem?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Im just wondering why you started a thread entitled 'HIT ME' a few minutes ago, saying you had an erection the size of the eiffel tower, and have now deleted it :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm sorry, I'm just very VERY bored! And boredom = silliness.
    I actually meant that post to go on another thread, where it would have been slightly more apt but for some reason it appeared as a new thread...

    I feel slightly embarrassed now... sorry again!

    I have started every paragraph in this post with 'I'. Isn't that amazing?!

    Pete
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Perhaps if you went double dutch, you would feel less worried about contraception failing, and more confident and relaxed about the sex. (Plus there is no wet patch! :D)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That's a good point and well made. Not quite sure how condoms work though... ah well, it can't be too hard, can it! ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by angelbabe
    a thread entitled 'HIT ME' a few minutes ago, saying you had an erection the size of the eiffel tower
    hihihihihi.... Sorry, immature giggling sometimes takes me over, and I can't control myself.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :rolleyes: Child. :p:D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Daisychainthing
    :rolleyes: Child. :p:D
    Yep. And proud :) At least I have a good excuse to immaturely giggle at any such comment that amuses me, whether it be something plain stupid, silly or just pathetic. I shout 'yahoo' for childish behaviour. :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I just like to giggle. That's why I do it. I need no excuses. :p:D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol dammit. You spoilt my moment! Ah well.... fair enough.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Eloping
    That's a good point and well made. Not quite sure how condoms work though.

    By acting as a barrier between your sperm and your partner, and they alos help prevent the spread of STI's

    some stuff here on contraception
    Contraception
    lots of stuff here
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    By acting as a barrier between your sperm and your partner


    Which can also be used to describe the role of parents! lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My parents are doing a really crappy job then. :p:D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My parents are doing a really crappy job then.


    Or else you are just too clever for their own good! lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mwahaha.

    I like the sound of that better. :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey!
    My boyfs exactly the same,im on the pill but he wnt cum inside me he has 2 pull out or he wnt finish!He sez he just wants 2 b xtra safe,wich is ok i spose cos then the chances of not gettin preggers is evn slimmer!
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