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Housing

ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,906 The Mix Elder

Sorry I haven't been on here for a while, why do house companies wait 4 other ppl move in wen u r desperate?

Crazy mad insane

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  • CallumCallum Community Manager Posts: 374 Listening Ear

    @ellie2000 It must be so frustrating having to wait on other people when you feel desperate. I'm wondering if you might like to share some more about your situation with us, if you feel comfortable doing so? Also, how are you feeling with this happening?

  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,906 The Mix Elder

    @Callum the manager called Me racist and aggressive which I'm not at a meeting to discuss their conduct. Is he allowed to to tht? He sed he wants to help. They make me think about situations

    Crazy mad insane
  • CallumCallum Community Manager Posts: 374 Listening Ear

    @ellie2000 You don't deserve this at all, to be called racist and aggressive, that is so unfair and unjust. I'm hearing that this is coming from the manager of the housing company, is that correct? You also said they make you think about situations, could you tell me more about the situations you've been thinking of please?

  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,906 The Mix Elder

    @Callum in speech I can cope with, in writing I think it's set in stone wat they say coz I saw the minutes of the meeting. Wen a manager says stuff I saw tht is in a email, they're all wrongens. Is tht the right way to c things?

    Crazy mad insane
  • CallumCallum Community Manager Posts: 374 Listening Ear

    @ellie2000 It's normal to read writing in certain ways, and it's easy to misread what is said or interpret things in a different tone to what is meant by the writer. I'm wondering what sorts of things have been said by the managers of the housing company?

  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,886 An Original Mixlorian

    hi ellie. hru doing today? just wanted to check in with you. 🤗

    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,906 The Mix Elder

    @eylah I'm putting notes on the door saying I don't want to see support. But they take them 4 'proof of stuff', whatever tht means. Since tht meeting they don't matter anymore. Way is tht? Why am I doing tht coz I don't understand myself? I did understand myself once but they took tht away, how?

    Crazy mad insane
  • CallumCallum Community Manager Posts: 374 Listening Ear

    @ellie2000 It sounds like you're feeling confused by the actions of the housing company, taking your written down thoughts as proof of something, and this has you feeling unsure as to whether you understand yourself. Would you say that's right?

  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,886 An Original Mixlorian

    ellie im sry that you feel like the housing ppl dont matter abt you. we care abt you here at the mix. hru doing now ellie?

    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,906 The Mix Elder
    edited March 26

    @eylah@Callum everything's gd, I had no visits in two coz I put notes on the door. The meeting was awful, I had two weeks to recover 😀 the management is awful, tht means the whole company is awful.is tht how ppl see stuff? I did drawings last nite n today. I like drawing

    Does any1 get poor service frm UC n why do they hold money tht they owe u?

    Crazy mad insane
  • eylaheylah Community Connector Posts: 10,886 An Original Mixlorian

    regarding the housing ppl. could you talk to your mum maybe abt what they’re doing? as it sounds rly unprofessional from them with how they’ve been treating you.
    -

    hru doing today ellie? we’re here for you. 💜

    ppl dont always need advice. sometimes all they rly need is a hand to hold. an ear to listen. and a heart to understand them. 🧸
  • Sian321Sian321 Community Manager Posts: 3,983 Community Veteran

    @ellie2000 how are you doing? Thank you for keeping us updated - it sounds like that meeting had a really difficult impact on you, and its taken a number of weeks to recover from that. How are you feeling at the moment? We're here to listen, and its great to hear that drawing has been helpful and comforting for you. We'd love to see some of your drawings if you'd ever feel comfortable posting!

    You said that UC are withholding money from you that's rightfully yours too - is that correct? That sounds extremely frustrating. I wonder whether the Citizen's Advice Bureau might be able to support you at all, or the following advocacy services:

    https://peerchat.link/POhWER

    https://peerchat.link/CA

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