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Inappropriate touching
Invisible_me
Posts: 585 Incredible Poster
I went away and whilst then I was touched constantly in places i shouldn't be 😰...
I tried to say no and he stopped but came back. He would be subtle but then he took me alone. I didn't know it was wrong till he'd done it. I was also 👄 to 🫦 and 👅
Dunno what to do... im. Scared.. please..
I went to see a male GP this week as a review and he could tell i was hiding something and I started crying so he just said just tell me when your ready, im here when you want to. I didn't tell him. Im female though ans the doc i see isnt coming bavk either 😒
I ended up crying at home and told my mum she just laughed at me and said why would he do that...
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Hey @Invisible_me it sounds like you went through traumatic experience, it's understandable why you feel scared. Really sorry to hear you didn't receive the support you deserve from family.
https://thesurvivorstrust.org/national-helplines/ helpline can provide confidential specialist support for these type of issues. Really hope you are able to reach out. I will also DM you with further DM options.
Anyone know how to get this out your head? How do you get over that disgusting feeling? I cant cope.. i feel so down and glump.
Its been reported to the police but because its abroad its harder to take action and im scared because of family consequences but id love to see him rot in jail! Sorry!
Im tooing and froinng with the drs. Went to the drs last week she just completely undermined everything and said "what id gone through was.normal" urghh no its a clear case of assult!
It is awful that the doctor dismissed you last week, but you've done a brilliant job sharing with the police - it takes strength to open up and share. I can see how much this has had an impact on you and you absolutely deserve some peace. I have sent you some links via DM but, whenever you do feel comfortable and ready, this resource (click here) has some great self help guides (specifically the one for women and girls). They go through reactions to trauma, thoughts and feelings, and how to manage them so they don't feel as overwhelming. Do you think this could be helpful? How have you been managing all this since speaking to the police?
The doctor shouldn’t have dismissed you, and neither should your mum. It’s definitely not your fault, have you considered talking to a place like childline? They are very helpful and understanding. Either way, just know that you’re not alone in all this. ❤️
Hi. I submitted a triage request and ive now been booked in for a telephone appointment tomorrow. I dobt know who with but ivd clearly specified ice had enough of speaking to new people. I just hope whoever it is that calls me tomorrow understands and I get proper support!